Dilemma, early 6-05

[underthesun421]

Well, I got something that came up that is going to require an immediate decision. One way or another I'm going to fuck someone over, and believe it or not, I do have a heart, so I don't want to do that

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[belladonnaerror]

I'm always available for opinion if needed. :) I may not be able to help, but I try.

-Kel

[underthesun421]

Thank you. I appreciate it. I just may have to let this situation (involving women, go figure) play itself out. I will let you know what happens, and if I get more confused, I will ask you.

[underthesun421]

Well, Kel, after eight months of not even getting a second glance, I have two women interested in me. And no, I'm not being full of myself, they have been prett direct.

They are both wonderful people and I feel like a jerk having to say no to another person. I know exactly how it feels, and I promisd myself I'd avoid this trifling bullshit. If you want more info to give me an opinion, please feel free.

Thanks, Kel. I appreciate it.

[belladonnaerror]

yeah, you can give me more info if you want. i'd be interested in tryin to give an opinion. right now all i can really say, from what i know, is that you should just give them both a chance...casually date and just pick which one you like the most. *shrugs* or if you don't like either of them...then just tell them you wanna be friends. i mean, there's not much else you can do. you can't date them both. well, you could but i don't think they'd like that... nor would it be easy to keep them a secret from each other. lol. and it'd be a bad thing to do. ;\ so yeah... if this doesn't already help then gimme more info!! :D
-kel

[underthesun421]

That's what everyone told me. I'm a shy mother (believe or not) and am not used to the attention.

And I wouldn't date them both, that's shady, and I consider myself non-shady. Thanks for the advice.

And by the way, if this post gets erased, don't anything bad of it, it just means that I let one of the girls read it, and I don't want them to read about this in my journal. Then I'll just comment to you on one of your posts.

Thank you, Kel,

Gordon

[underthesun421]

Kel, so you know, I am now dating one of these women. I enjoy her company, and she enjoys mine. I just wanted to say thank you for being considerate. :)

[belladonnaerror]

thank you for thanking me! :D lol. good luck to you both! hopefully all is happy! :D i like to try and help when i can. :)

-kel