Weird weird weird family things.
So. My brother dated this girl, Liz, for a decent portion of the summer. However, Liz's family was slightly crazy. Her mother IMd and texted my brother constantly; more so than even her daughter. And then when Kevin finally broke up with Liz (because she accused him of going to a girl's volleyball game to check out all the girls in short shorts...even though he is a student athlete and has a bunch of friends on the team) her mom texted him and accused him of breaking her heart and all this shit. Anyway, Kevin got a new SN to try and avoid this woman, and a month later she IMs him again because she somehow found his new SN out. So I IMd her.
BlueMusic127: this is mary, kevin's sister. I don't understand your desire to IM your daughter's boyfriends or exboyfriends, but it definitely weird and I think you should really just learn to leave people alone.
Chattonsings: oh wow. so were you talking to me then and not kevin?
BlueMusic127: no, I am on my own computer in another state talking to him on the phone.
Chattonsings: and i certainly don't mean any disrepect to you all and your family
Chattonsings: sorry
Chattonsings: i didn't mena to upset him at all
Chattonsings: i'm not wierd
BlueMusic127: I don't think you do either, but the fact that you got his new screenname and then IM'd him on that is weird. I have never met a mother who continued to send messages after a relationship was over, especially things that you have said to him.
BlueMusic127: I just don't understand why you can't leave him alone.
Chattonsings: i am however extremely embarrased! - i didn't say anything innapropriate or out of line i assure you
Chattonsings: i certainly have every intention of leaving him alone - you're a good sister to stick for him and yell at me
Chattonsings: thanks!
BlueMusic127: I just think that overall it is inappropriate to continue to IM your daughter's exboyfriend.
BlueMusic127: ok
BlueMusic127: thank you
Chattonsings: tonight is the first time i've spoken to kevin in over a month
BlueMusic127: yes, but I think that was also due to the fact that he changed his screenname
Chattonsings: i'm certainly NOT stalking him
BlueMusic127: I'm not saying you are
Chattonsings: yes, and that's why i asked him about all this and respecting his privacy - honeslty i've just been worried about him - he seems angry to me -
Chattonsings: but, you're right it is NONE OF MY BUSINESS!
Chattonsings: and i'm sorry i've caused you guys drama and distress!!!
Chattonsings: please forgive me
BlueMusic127: its fine, I just wanted to express my feelings because I really don't think you should be IMing him.
Chattonsings: he's just a really really good kid - and he and liz had a nice relationship so I cared about him - nothing more - nothing wierd or out of line - i assure you - thanks for holding me accountable and i'll surely leave him alone - he just became friends with all of us - so no biggy - never mind i'm babbling on and on sounding more crazy - but, i'm not - good bye
The bold part is my favorite. Did I say you were stalking him? NO. It is interesting how your mind jumped there, however. Weird weird woman.
So onto my impressions of Grey's. I'm sadly becoming more disillusioned with this show, and I think I may just watch it online or download it from now on. It doesn't seem to have that same spark or chemistry that was there the first two seasons. I liked last season to a point, but so far the fourth hasn't done much for me. I cannot seem to jump on the George/Izzie train, and it pisses me off that every functional relationship gets killed. And I miss Burke.
Ugly Betty, however, continues to impress me. I love Henry and I hope him and Betty work it all out and have lots of cute little dorky kids. And I love that Justin is interning at Mode. I just think its a fun show to watch, and I can't get over how colorful and wonderful everything looks. They do a good job shooting it.
I still need to watch the office; I downloaded it this morning before I left for work.
OH. And this sucks.
So I am hard up for money. My parents keep telling me not to work more, but I really have to at this point. I locked my keys in my trunk and I needed to get them out so I could make it to work today, and in the long run I realized it'd be cheaper probably to just get Triple A, but it just sucks. I was planning on buying the external harddrive that is on sale at Costco right now because I need to backup my computer as well as move my music to it, and I would have had enough had I not just spent $80 getting Triple A. Ugh. And my parents keep getting me to go to doctors and shit, but I have to copay $20 each time I go and like, that adds up. Seeing my therapist once a week will cost $20 a week. My emergency room visit for my ankle cost $20. And they keep saying "Oh, we'll pay for that; its your health" but my bills for school still aren't taken care of and my dad swears he sent the check from my trust money in, but now I have a fricking late fee of $150 on top of the $3000 I owe. And it just pisses me off because they don't want me to work more but i need to pay for things, and if the money isn't there then that is the only way. My dad did a whole bunch of shitty things with money last month and my mom is now monitoring everything he does so nothing goes unpaid like it was, but I'm just tired of it. And the sad thing is, I think I'm not as good with money as I should be because I've only had him to learn from, and he is terrible at it. But I'm just frustrated; I work three day shifts and a night shift and each day shift I'm lucky if I make $40 but last Sunday night I made over $100, and I just wish they'd put me on nights. Ugh.
Sorry about that.
BlueMusic127: this is mary, kevin's sister. I don't understand your desire to IM your daughter's boyfriends or exboyfriends, but it definitely weird and I think you should really just learn to leave people alone.
Chattonsings: oh wow. so were you talking to me then and not kevin?
BlueMusic127: no, I am on my own computer in another state talking to him on the phone.
Chattonsings: and i certainly don't mean any disrepect to you all and your family
Chattonsings: sorry
Chattonsings: i didn't mena to upset him at all
Chattonsings: i'm not wierd
BlueMusic127: I don't think you do either, but the fact that you got his new screenname and then IM'd him on that is weird. I have never met a mother who continued to send messages after a relationship was over, especially things that you have said to him.
BlueMusic127: I just don't understand why you can't leave him alone.
Chattonsings: i am however extremely embarrased! - i didn't say anything innapropriate or out of line i assure you
Chattonsings: i certainly have every intention of leaving him alone - you're a good sister to stick for him and yell at me
Chattonsings: thanks!
BlueMusic127: I just think that overall it is inappropriate to continue to IM your daughter's exboyfriend.
BlueMusic127: ok
BlueMusic127: thank you
Chattonsings: tonight is the first time i've spoken to kevin in over a month
BlueMusic127: yes, but I think that was also due to the fact that he changed his screenname
Chattonsings: i'm certainly NOT stalking him
BlueMusic127: I'm not saying you are
Chattonsings: yes, and that's why i asked him about all this and respecting his privacy - honeslty i've just been worried about him - he seems angry to me -
Chattonsings: but, you're right it is NONE OF MY BUSINESS!
Chattonsings: and i'm sorry i've caused you guys drama and distress!!!
Chattonsings: please forgive me
BlueMusic127: its fine, I just wanted to express my feelings because I really don't think you should be IMing him.
Chattonsings: he's just a really really good kid - and he and liz had a nice relationship so I cared about him - nothing more - nothing wierd or out of line - i assure you - thanks for holding me accountable and i'll surely leave him alone - he just became friends with all of us - so no biggy - never mind i'm babbling on and on sounding more crazy - but, i'm not - good bye
The bold part is my favorite. Did I say you were stalking him? NO. It is interesting how your mind jumped there, however. Weird weird woman.
So onto my impressions of Grey's. I'm sadly becoming more disillusioned with this show, and I think I may just watch it online or download it from now on. It doesn't seem to have that same spark or chemistry that was there the first two seasons. I liked last season to a point, but so far the fourth hasn't done much for me. I cannot seem to jump on the George/Izzie train, and it pisses me off that every functional relationship gets killed. And I miss Burke.
Ugly Betty, however, continues to impress me. I love Henry and I hope him and Betty work it all out and have lots of cute little dorky kids. And I love that Justin is interning at Mode. I just think its a fun show to watch, and I can't get over how colorful and wonderful everything looks. They do a good job shooting it.
I still need to watch the office; I downloaded it this morning before I left for work.
OH. And this sucks.
So I am hard up for money. My parents keep telling me not to work more, but I really have to at this point. I locked my keys in my trunk and I needed to get them out so I could make it to work today, and in the long run I realized it'd be cheaper probably to just get Triple A, but it just sucks. I was planning on buying the external harddrive that is on sale at Costco right now because I need to backup my computer as well as move my music to it, and I would have had enough had I not just spent $80 getting Triple A. Ugh. And my parents keep getting me to go to doctors and shit, but I have to copay $20 each time I go and like, that adds up. Seeing my therapist once a week will cost $20 a week. My emergency room visit for my ankle cost $20. And they keep saying "Oh, we'll pay for that; its your health" but my bills for school still aren't taken care of and my dad swears he sent the check from my trust money in, but now I have a fricking late fee of $150 on top of the $3000 I owe. And it just pisses me off because they don't want me to work more but i need to pay for things, and if the money isn't there then that is the only way. My dad did a whole bunch of shitty things with money last month and my mom is now monitoring everything he does so nothing goes unpaid like it was, but I'm just tired of it. And the sad thing is, I think I'm not as good with money as I should be because I've only had him to learn from, and he is terrible at it. But I'm just frustrated; I work three day shifts and a night shift and each day shift I'm lucky if I make $40 but last Sunday night I made over $100, and I just wish they'd put me on nights. Ugh.
Sorry about that.