Apr 16, 2007 14:38
so my mom's had orthoscopic surgery on her knee. (all went well, and is a v. no-big-deal kind of surgery) so now she can't move around much - right after the surgery she had to stay in bed all the time. So we're having to do a lot more around the house and also take care of her at the same time. And by we i mostly mean me. Cause dad's at work all the time, and andrew refuses to do anything. He completely went off on her the DAY after she had surgery cause he didn't want to have to be woken up to drive me to work at 3PM. i never get to sleep that late :( dunno why he gets away with all the stuff he does. he's constantly blasting his horrible music and won't turn it down when we ask. then he sings along which makes me want to tear his throat out cause it's like a dog throwing up. And when dad gets home he's angry if there's dishes in the sink or anything, even if i've been at work during the day too. of COURSE andrew shouldn't be expected to do anything, he's too busy hanging out with his little girl friend. The one time mom got him to help - he ruined some laundry by putting clean clothes in the basket that was used to hold old doggie towels. then he threw a fit when mom wanted him to do it over and got upset.
AARGH there's just so much annoyance going on and i'm just wanting to hide from it all cause i really am sick of everything. Honestly haven't got energy to do anything, i have a day off from work now and i just can't think of anything i've got the inclination to do. have to finish typing up some budget type stuff though, but i keep finding thinhgs wrong with it, and getting upset at my ignorance about somethings or when i'm unsure about others... makes me feel really unprepared and/or sheltered. it also makes me feel good about some things when i reaize that i've already got a bunch of things done, so that's good.
mebbe later i'll write about some experiences i've had at work, so my lj is not just for whining and posting memes... altho that may indeed be the sole purpose of LJ.