Dec 20, 2004 14:17
You know - it's really hard to find really great friends these days so personally when I do, I really cherish the relationship that I have with them. First instinct when something ridiculous happens to a friend is to deal with it as if it happened to you - in this case I refuse to be like barbie and say rude things for no apparant reason. I've got no problems anymore - I accepted the fact that some people are just not people I want in my life or would ever choose to associate with - I used to have a problem just settling with that and I always wanted to resolve it - some people are impossible to reason with though.
The way you treat other people says a lot about your character.
TO let some THIRD PARTY pick up your phone and call someone who used to be a best friend to belittle them, I mean...honestly, what was the purpose? That is the only question I have - I mean I already knew the kind of people you both were so it doesnt surprise me in the least bit - However, I figured now that everyone has grown up and gone to college that maybe it would be different - but I guess some things never change.
Retaliation is something that just seems to happen naturally when ignorant people do ignorant things. Some people have real emotions that they don't hide behind various material things that I feel no need to mention at this time, because anyone reading this that knows what I'm talking about doesn't need a list... Yea someones feelings got hurt so they dealt with it - but what was your excuse to start the whole thing...
you dont have one
hence - my entire point for this post
real friendship consists of so much more then using your friends phone to call ex friends to say ridiculous things cause it makes you ...i dont know, what did it do for you guys? did you get a giggle out of it? I hope one day that you both grow out of this stage of ignorance and can maybe develop a friendship that consists of good times that don't involve the belittlement of others :)