This is lame. Bringing this to the world is lame and you want to know what's even lamer? The fact of you sitting here saying how terrible these desicions they're making is wrong when at kylee's thing on saturday, you're the one who asked me to drink about 5 times and wouldn't shut up about it. You tried to get me to drink beer, to have some morgans and to have a baby drink numerous times Lisa. You cannot sit here and make these accusations when two days ago you were doing these choices as well. You were the one who got drunk off of one drink. If you tell their parents, i'm going to go and tell yours that saturday night, you were toasted. Mark my words. Its not a threat, its not a promise, nothing lame like that. It's ridiculous to do this and deep down inside you must know that. They have made choices, theres a thin line between making points to them and trying to change their views on it and making it a whole point to the world. Take the names out, this is wrong. I dont care what anyone else says thats against what i'm saying.
I dont drink, I dont smoke and I certainly dont do drugs and everyone is aware of this fact. Nor do i go off and cross the line between being supportive and a positive help to my friends and being a negative bitchy impact. Get this out of here, this is terribly wrong and get over it. You arent the one to judge on their life. These people you are talking about are some of my best friends. Get off their back, voice your opinion, please do its what we as freedom people can but don't do the wrong here and try and ruin their lives. Its their choices, opinions and outlooks on their situations so get out of it. Incase you didnt get that last one its THEIR yeah, THEM, its apart of the english grammar, our every day language and something we all need to think about. Worry about yourself Lisa, not them. Voice it but then drop it. Two wrongs dont make a right.
i didn't pressure you. i kept asking if you wanted one because you said in kylees car on the way back from chases you might drink. sorry if you thought i was pressuring you.
i sure as hell would have have been a bad friend not to worry about them tory. just like you would have been a bad friend to not take care of jeriah jay and anthony when they were gone.
It's fine to worry about them Lisa, don't get me wrong. But giving them threats about telling their parents which want solve the problems either is doing wrong. Especially sharing their issue with everyone who reads your livejournal is wrong to go along with it. You dont need to do it publicly. You have their cell phone numbers. You simply could've given them a call, told them if they have a couple moments to spare with you in private to do so please and talk to them about it privately. Take it from someone who's done the whole "preaching to your friends and going off on them for smoking" route, it doesn't work. I've tried numerous of times with other friends, the only thing that can make them stop is their self mind and if they dont want too stop they sure as hell aren't going to stop over a livejournal entry.
i give lisa HUGE props for saying something at all. ive always wanted to say something. but im always too scared. its hard to confront your friends. waayyyy harder than confronting people you hardly know.
and plus, even if she didnt put the names. we would all know who she was talking about anyways.
im not trying to be a dick or anything but it really is they're. cause it's "i dont see a problem that they are in there." not "them are in there".
also, she wasn't talking about drinking. she was talking about smoking.
maybe dropping names ISN'T the best idea, but now everyone pretty much knows who it is. most people could tell anyway. so there isn't much point in taking them out NOW, ya know?
again, i'm not trying to be a dick. i'm not mad at anybody and i'm not saying either side is wrong or right. she did voice her opinion, and it's everyone else who is keeping this going. (myself included, i'm not going to act high and mighty here.)
(this also isn't directed right to you tory. i just hit the reply to the last thing stated and directed the first & second parts to you. this is for everyone.)
i think that lisa & whoever you're talking about should just talk about this with eachother. the outcome might not be good, but it's better than fighting online.
The fact of you sitting here saying how terrible these desicions they're making is wrong when at kylee's thing on saturday, you're the one who asked me to drink about 5 times and wouldn't shut up about it. You tried to get me to drink beer, to have some morgans and to have a baby drink numerous times Lisa. You cannot sit here and make these accusations when two days ago you were doing these choices as well. You were the one who got drunk off of one drink. If you tell their parents, i'm going to go and tell yours that saturday night, you were toasted. Mark my words. Its not a threat, its not a promise, nothing lame like that. It's ridiculous to do this and deep down inside you must know that. They have made choices, theres a thin line between making points to them and trying to change their views on it and making it a whole point to the world. Take the names out, this is wrong. I dont care what anyone else says thats against what i'm saying.
I dont drink, I dont smoke and I certainly dont do drugs and everyone is aware of this fact. Nor do i go off and cross the line between being supportive and a positive help to my friends and being a negative bitchy impact. Get this out of here, this is terribly wrong and get over it. You arent the one to judge on their life. These people you are talking about are some of my best friends. Get off their back, voice your opinion, please do its what we as freedom people can but don't do the wrong here and try and ruin their lives. Its their choices, opinions and outlooks on their situations so get out of it. Incase you didnt get that last one its THEIR yeah, THEM, its apart of the english grammar, our every day language and something we all need to think about. Worry about yourself Lisa, not them. Voice it but then drop it. Two wrongs dont make a right.
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Take it from someone who's done the whole "preaching to your friends and going off on them for smoking" route, it doesn't work. I've tried numerous of times with other friends, the only thing that can make them stop is their self mind and if they dont want too stop they sure as hell aren't going to stop over a livejournal entry.
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ive always wanted to say something.
but im always too scared.
its hard to confront your friends.
waayyyy harder than confronting people you hardly know.
and plus, even if she didnt put the names.
we would all know who she was talking about anyways.
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but it really is they're. cause it's "i dont see a problem that
they are in there." not "them are in there".
also, she wasn't talking about drinking.
she was talking about smoking.
maybe dropping names ISN'T the best idea,
but now everyone pretty much knows who it is.
most people could tell anyway. so there isn't
much point in taking them out NOW, ya know?
again, i'm not trying to be a dick.
i'm not mad at anybody and i'm not saying
either side is wrong or right. she did voice
her opinion, and it's everyone else who is
keeping this going. (myself included, i'm not
going to act high and mighty here.)
(this also isn't directed right to you tory.
i just hit the reply to the last thing stated
and directed the first & second parts to you.
this is for everyone.)
i think that lisa & whoever you're talking about
should just talk about this with eachother. the
outcome might not be good, but it's better than
fighting online.
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