Drama Drama Drama... UGH!!!
So, before I start actually writing about my dilemma, I'd like to apologize to everyone who actually reads my blog. What I should be doing with my blogs is that I should be writing and keeping records of my daily life. Whether the events of my life be good or bad.. However, what I do with my blog, I use as a place to vent my anger and frustrations.
Anyways, let's talk about one of my friends. Her name is Shannon Cantu. You can look her up on facebook and youtube as 'Shannon Gaga' if you want... She currently goes to Texas State University in San Marcos. Shortly after attending, she developed an alter ego named Shannon Gaga in which she emulates Lady Gaga. It's one thing to idolize a celebrity but Shannon takes it to a whole new level of obsession. For example, she dresses in nothing but leotards and high heels in public. (Did I mention she's rather large?) So, hanging out with her is beyond embarrassing! Especially when I go clubbing with her. Recently, she's became quite famous around Corpus Christi, her school, and the internet. I try to warn her about how she's nothing but a joke to everyone but she won't listen...
Now onto the next friend who has the most drama out of all of my friends put together, her name is Sarah. She has a boyfriend named Jacob Demonti whom all of her friends (including me) believes he's insane and controlling. Let me start from the beginning. About two years ago, Jessica, Sarah, and I went to a concert in RealmsCon of a J-Core band called The Royal Dead. There, Sarah met a Jacob and not even a week later, they were together and Sarah believed she found the love of her life. Here I am, typing this, almost gagging at how naive straight people are. Then about a month later, Jacob went to the insane asylum for what he claims to be Jacob defending himself by attacking his abusive parents. He stayed in the asylum for almost a year and a half! However, the maximum penalty for a juvenile commiting assault and battery is about three months in Juvenile Hall, so for him to stay in the asylum for so long sounds really fishy. It's as if he must have done something horrible! During his time in the asylum, Jacob became the target of Sarah's obsession as she constantly talked about him. Being her friend, we were obviously there for her to be shoulders for her to lean on and lending an ear when she needed to talk so before Jacob came out of the asylum, we have hung out very often like almost everyday after school.
Jacob recently came out of the insane asylum and suddenly, visits from Sarah dramatically decreased. I haven't talked her in more than a month and when I do see her at my brothers school to pick my brother up, she avoids eye contact with us... About a week after Jacob was released, I get a random phone call from Sarah. She was crying and she was asking me to take all pictures of her off of my facebook account. Curious, I asked her why. She just said she had to delete her facebook. Again, I asked why. She never answered. Sure enough, her facebook and myspace was deleted.
There are only two people in the world who have the power to make her delete her facebook: Jacob and her father. If it was her father whom wanted her to delete her account, she would have just ranted my ear off on the phone being all like "My bitch ass whore son of a bitch dad is making me". However, she was crying and refused to tell me why she had to delete her facebook so I came to the assumption that it was the first warning sign that Jacob was indeed insane and is a controlling boyfriend so I alerted my friends, including Jessica and my best friend, Chelsea, to watch out for Sarah and look out for any signs that Jacob may be abusive. Also, I asked them to watch out for any signs in changes of mood.
It has been over a month since I have hung out with Sarah so I decided to call her and ask to hang out. No answer. Then suddenly, I get a text message saying "stop calling me". She was mad at me and Tim for ABSOLUTELY no reason. No really, I am not kidding. When I asked her to give me ONE reason why she was mad at me and Tim, she wouldn't give one then after about thirty minutes of angry texting to each other, she finally cracked and said that she wasn't actually mad at us. She just wanted to be with Jacob and wanted to be affiliated with no one else. It was the final piece to the puzzle! Jacob is a controlling manipulative insane boyfriend. Problem is, I have no idea what I can do to fix this. I have told her mom but I don't think she'll know what to do any better than I do.
So, readers, help me out! What should I do about Sarah? :(
Anyways, let's talk about one of my friends. Her name is Shannon Cantu. You can look her up on facebook and youtube as 'Shannon Gaga' if you want... She currently goes to Texas State University in San Marcos. Shortly after attending, she developed an alter ego named Shannon Gaga in which she emulates Lady Gaga. It's one thing to idolize a celebrity but Shannon takes it to a whole new level of obsession. For example, she dresses in nothing but leotards and high heels in public. (Did I mention she's rather large?) So, hanging out with her is beyond embarrassing! Especially when I go clubbing with her. Recently, she's became quite famous around Corpus Christi, her school, and the internet. I try to warn her about how she's nothing but a joke to everyone but she won't listen...
Now onto the next friend who has the most drama out of all of my friends put together, her name is Sarah. She has a boyfriend named Jacob Demonti whom all of her friends (including me) believes he's insane and controlling. Let me start from the beginning. About two years ago, Jessica, Sarah, and I went to a concert in RealmsCon of a J-Core band called The Royal Dead. There, Sarah met a Jacob and not even a week later, they were together and Sarah believed she found the love of her life. Here I am, typing this, almost gagging at how naive straight people are. Then about a month later, Jacob went to the insane asylum for what he claims to be Jacob defending himself by attacking his abusive parents. He stayed in the asylum for almost a year and a half! However, the maximum penalty for a juvenile commiting assault and battery is about three months in Juvenile Hall, so for him to stay in the asylum for so long sounds really fishy. It's as if he must have done something horrible! During his time in the asylum, Jacob became the target of Sarah's obsession as she constantly talked about him. Being her friend, we were obviously there for her to be shoulders for her to lean on and lending an ear when she needed to talk so before Jacob came out of the asylum, we have hung out very often like almost everyday after school.
Jacob recently came out of the insane asylum and suddenly, visits from Sarah dramatically decreased. I haven't talked her in more than a month and when I do see her at my brothers school to pick my brother up, she avoids eye contact with us... About a week after Jacob was released, I get a random phone call from Sarah. She was crying and she was asking me to take all pictures of her off of my facebook account. Curious, I asked her why. She just said she had to delete her facebook. Again, I asked why. She never answered. Sure enough, her facebook and myspace was deleted.
There are only two people in the world who have the power to make her delete her facebook: Jacob and her father. If it was her father whom wanted her to delete her account, she would have just ranted my ear off on the phone being all like "My bitch ass whore son of a bitch dad is making me". However, she was crying and refused to tell me why she had to delete her facebook so I came to the assumption that it was the first warning sign that Jacob was indeed insane and is a controlling boyfriend so I alerted my friends, including Jessica and my best friend, Chelsea, to watch out for Sarah and look out for any signs that Jacob may be abusive. Also, I asked them to watch out for any signs in changes of mood.
It has been over a month since I have hung out with Sarah so I decided to call her and ask to hang out. No answer. Then suddenly, I get a text message saying "stop calling me". She was mad at me and Tim for ABSOLUTELY no reason. No really, I am not kidding. When I asked her to give me ONE reason why she was mad at me and Tim, she wouldn't give one then after about thirty minutes of angry texting to each other, she finally cracked and said that she wasn't actually mad at us. She just wanted to be with Jacob and wanted to be affiliated with no one else. It was the final piece to the puzzle! Jacob is a controlling manipulative insane boyfriend. Problem is, I have no idea what I can do to fix this. I have told her mom but I don't think she'll know what to do any better than I do.
So, readers, help me out! What should I do about Sarah? :(