the moment of truth ...
because i can't be bothered to type about it:
Juliette
... do you mind if we have a chat later
on here,
just i don't' really get it.
Ross
ah
Juliette
when you're free
Ross
ok but i might not be able to tell you much more
but we can chat about it of course..
what time?
9?
Juliette
i mean anytime
but online pls if that's ok
Ross
aye
Juliette
it just basically seems to have come completely out of the blue for me
Ross
well it isnt cos of anything weird
you didnt suddenly do something that made me think yikes
Juliette
call it constructive criticism or something - just so i can make a bit of sent
Ross
9pm i'll be home
Juliette
ok
Ross
there wont be any criticism to make though
but i'll be honest
Juliette
well i'd just like to know cos, for me, it seemed to go lovely day to bam
so 9pm :)
Ross
ok
So we talked for a long time (otherwise i would've just posted it directly which would be easier and mean i don't have to re-hash it in my head.
he lost the zing. i still felt it; he didn't. he said all the affection was geniune on sunday which is why i just didn't pick up on it. he said it was just friendship and physical attraction now. and it wasn't something that he'd decided all at once and he'd really thought it through.
we talked about relationships and each others hang-ups.
i was 100% honest with him, perhaps too honest. but i didn't hide how i was feeling. i told him i was hurt, i told him i'd been crying. i told him i was surprised because it came out of nowhere.
we talked about so much i can't really remember it all .... maybe i'll add more.
Juliette
... do you mind if we have a chat later
on here,
just i don't' really get it.
Ross
ah
Juliette
when you're free
Ross
ok but i might not be able to tell you much more
but we can chat about it of course..
what time?
9?
Juliette
i mean anytime
but online pls if that's ok
Ross
aye
Juliette
it just basically seems to have come completely out of the blue for me
Ross
well it isnt cos of anything weird
you didnt suddenly do something that made me think yikes
Juliette
call it constructive criticism or something - just so i can make a bit of sent
Ross
9pm i'll be home
Juliette
ok
Ross
there wont be any criticism to make though
but i'll be honest
Juliette
well i'd just like to know cos, for me, it seemed to go lovely day to bam
so 9pm :)
Ross
ok
So we talked for a long time (otherwise i would've just posted it directly which would be easier and mean i don't have to re-hash it in my head.
he lost the zing. i still felt it; he didn't. he said all the affection was geniune on sunday which is why i just didn't pick up on it. he said it was just friendship and physical attraction now. and it wasn't something that he'd decided all at once and he'd really thought it through.
we talked about relationships and each others hang-ups.
i was 100% honest with him, perhaps too honest. but i didn't hide how i was feeling. i told him i was hurt, i told him i'd been crying. i told him i was surprised because it came out of nowhere.
we talked about so much i can't really remember it all .... maybe i'll add more.