what the ???
so a guy that you've been casually dating for like a week ish says in response to who is better (him or his friend, a girl) and in a very pompous, egotistical, rehtorical manner "who takes care of you..." it doesn't make sense why that doesn't quite work until early the next morning... "I do!" "I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF!" and i have been for over a year now. ian and i took care OF EACH OTHER...drew never took care of me...and you sure as hell haven't assumed that role in a week. i never realized just how independant i can be sometimes...i'm sure this sounds petty to some...its actually one in a list that has been pricking at me lately.
so here is the question out there to all of you...is it bad to want credit and recognition for taking care of myself? is it wrong to think that someone is incredibly pompous if they think they automatically have that role in my life just because they have a penis? i'm not against being taken care of by any means! just don't think that because i like you, and your male automatically means i look to you for my ever need...oh good god i feel like i was just sent in a time warp back to 50's town.
so here is the question out there to all of you...is it bad to want credit and recognition for taking care of myself? is it wrong to think that someone is incredibly pompous if they think they automatically have that role in my life just because they have a penis? i'm not against being taken care of by any means! just don't think that because i like you, and your male automatically means i look to you for my ever need...oh good god i feel like i was just sent in a time warp back to 50's town.