I really hate it when people make a comment and when they realize they've been heard by the person it was about they add "just kidding" when it's obvious it wasn't
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That's a shitty situation. I recommend talking to them about it. I know (if I may play the devils advocate) that sometimes when you are a person who is there for someone during a difficult time it is sometimes stressful, and then YOU need to go vent about something. I know I have been in a situation where a friend was hurting and very upset and so I listened and gave comfort and advice as much as she wanted me to. But I personally didn't think she has a right to be as upset as she was, so it was important for me to find someone to get that off my chest about. It wasn't that I cared about her less, or that I thought her feelings were invalid. I just disagreed. So I was there for her as her friend, and then I needed someone else to be there for me, so I could flush out the stress/bad feelings.
I'm not saying this is what is happening, in fact it probably isn't. Especially if it is happening a lot, with a lot of different 'friends'. It's just one possibility..
Btw. Where have you gotten your tattoos? I am finally thinking about getting one, and I am looking for parlor/artist advice.
So far i've gone to the parlour and black lotus. Out of the two I'd say either one is good. The thing with the parlour is that you really need to look at the portfolios af the differetn artists, there's definitely different skill levels and styles. I'm planning on gong to Eugene Tattoo for my next one, don't have any thing from them yet. Black Lotus is good too. I've heard nothing but good things about their work although I have heard a few people say they were treated like they were stupid if they weren't covered in tattoos. The girl who did mine (annie) wasn't like that at all but I did kindof get that vibe from a couple people there.
I'm not saying this is what is happening, in fact it probably isn't. Especially if it is happening a lot, with a lot of different 'friends'. It's just one possibility..
Btw. Where have you gotten your tattoos? I am finally thinking about getting one, and I am looking for parlor/artist advice.
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So far i've gone to the parlour and black lotus. Out of the two I'd say either one is good. The thing with the parlour is that you really need to look at the portfolios af the differetn artists, there's definitely different skill levels and styles. I'm planning on gong to Eugene Tattoo for my next one, don't have any thing from them yet. Black Lotus is good too. I've heard nothing but good things about their work although I have heard a few people say they were treated like they were stupid if they weren't covered in tattoos. The girl who did mine (annie) wasn't like that at all but I did kindof get that vibe from a couple people there.
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