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[twilightlovers]

im thinking about coming out to my dad on thursday...maybe saturday? maybe never...i really want to..i realize its been over 2 months since i told my mom, and well i hate lying to my dad. i love him so much. but i suck with words, and i dont know what to say or how to say it. cos when i told my mom it just all came out wrong.

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[infinitystar]

good luck!

i don't know when i'll tell my family. i have been thinking about it too.

[twilightlovers]

thank you, and good luck to you when you do tell your family.

[shewentaway]

i think my mother knows, maybe not. i have no idea. i once told my sister (i said i was joking..)that i was a dyke and would go to her school to find a girlfriend because she goes to an all girl college..

good luck, let me know how it goes.

[twilightlovers]

funny story, my mom had suspicions about me for a while. and accused my now gf of being a lesbian and being my friends lover. but as soon as i started hanging out with my gf like constantly, she stopped asking questions. yeah i dont understand that at all. but thank you, too :)

[ex_lost_star681]

good luck..
its odd... how after time the pressure builds up till you want to scream the truth to the world..damn to the consequence..
hope you don't mind, i added you.

[twilightlovers]

thanks and yeah this has been building up for too long
ps. i added you :)

[noseepennemore]

good luck coming out to your dad hun,
takes a lot of courage
I'll be rooting for ya

[twilightlovers]

thank you so much. its great to know that people who barely know me are so behind me :)

[anothrwomanlost]

first of all, baby, you're not lying to him. you're just withholding the whole truth because you're scared- shit, we've all been there before.
i don't know your dad but... the man is absolutely crazy about you, honey. i so envy your relationship with your father... he loves to to absolute pieces and i'm sure that, even if it comes as a shock to him, he will always love you and he'll eventually deal with it. and you thought he'd take it a lot better than your mom, too... and i'm almost sure that he will.
whatever you decide, i'm sure it'll be all right. if you think you're ready now, then go for it... if not, you can wait, but know that, when you do tell him, he'll love you, just the same, if not more for being honest.
but no matter what, i'll still love you the most.
xoxoxo
-jen-

[twilightlovers]

see i cant think about things too much cos ill start to overanalyze them x20. so i try to be somewhat spontaneous and this isnt totally..but a lot more than i could be. i just need to get this out. i cant go on keeping this from him. but i dont know what to say. everything i say comes out wrong. *sighs*

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[anothrwomanlost]

:( sweetie... not everything you say comes out wrong. you can't even say that... well, okay, you just did, but it's not true.
whatever you do will be for the best, somehow. i truly believe that. and i know that he'll love you, no matter what his reaction is.
if you do come out to him- call me as soon as possible, because i want every detail. ;) and know that i will -always- love you, no matter what happens.