Lazy Day
It was a lazy day...yeah...I cleaned a little bit but it's really not that bad. I got up reasonably early...10ish...Given how tired I've been lately that's really not bad at all. Imre was gone today so I did my own dinner...You know...the spam in a can really isn't that bad. I talked with my parents a little and had a wonderful conversation with Charstie. Spent a lot of the day just surfing the internet and listening to music...random on two thousand songs you never know what's going to come up next. Not sure what I'm going to do for the next few hours or really the next few days. I'll probably continue to clean but if I do everything there's nothing to do during the week except for wait for Charst. I'm starting to get giddy about the wedding. I think about it several times during the day. It's been really fun to think about honestly. I know that I'm with the right person because I'm not nervous at all. I have to start working on my Vows however. Clearly I can't post ideas here but I have to figure out kind of what they're supposed to be like. Got to love the internet....Someone should write a book called "How to Be the Perfect Groom" Maybe I'll write it but I think that I'm far from the perfect groom. It would have to include pictures of cars and sexy brides in wedding lingerie just to keep them intrigued but it should include examples of what is appropriate to help with and how to help best. Examples of wedding vows, examples of things to take care of the wedding day and wedding night. It's so hard to knkow what to do because women's magazine's are largely geared toward this or the eventuality of this. The book would of course need to be mostly written by women I suppose. They have the best idea of what needs to be done and what the groom should be helping with and where he should keep his fat nose out of the way. Maybe all of us can sit down and write this out and each time one of our friends get's engaged then we'd have the guidebook all set up and ready to go. Could make everyone's lives easier in the future. Ladies...after the wedding let's not forget this and try to do it. I'll sit and type and the ladies can yell at me and discuss over several glasses of wine with cheese and crackers and daquiries. I'll put a note in my calender. Important...this means that there needs to be a lot of people because everyone's ideas are different. So first in mind comes Suz, Meg, Amanda, Steve, Charstie, Myself. Can you tell that I'm feeling bad that I'm not there to help with the addressing of envelopes and doing the errands right now. I know that there was no way that I could come home and do all this but there are things that I wish that I had taken care of earlier that Charstie told me to try and do but I just forgot...(sorry hon) Just things like addresses that I can kind of get now but it would have been so much easier if I had a book with blank pages to fill out and things like that. But despite this funny idea I think that it would be worth it while it's all fresh in our minds. It would be a fun party too. Billions are made in the wedding market. All we need to do is get as many ideas as possible and format it. Maybe we could make thousands off of it. now I'm dreaming. But anyway...That's about all that I have to say right now. I really can't wait to get home and see everyone again and start developing stronger friendships in California...New Year Resolution for me was probably regain contact with all the people that I've lost over the years and maintain those friendships...So far I'm doing pretty well but I'm still working on contact with those lucky few. I do however need e-mail addresses from Suz and Meg...Have a great day/night everyone and I'll talk with you later.