What do you guys think
when you make plans with someone, especially when the plans are your idea, and then, without asking you about it beforehand, they just invite someone else along? Am I alone in thinking this is inexcusably rude behavior? Some people's mentality seems to be, "the more the merrier," but would it kill you to say something first? Especially when the whole reason we're meeting is we haven't hung out in forever and we want to catch up, and you just decide to bring somebody else along... it makes me feel like our relationship is not that important to you. Is this an unreasonable way to feel?