eek-harmony
So... at the funeral... my friend tells me that I should look into eharmony.com.
HAHAHAHAHAHA... I don't know about those sites. I'm sure they work for some people, but I can't imagine paying a website to hook me up with someone. Just seems so bizarre. But then again, my track record for using the net to hook up with someone has been pretty successful--for hooking up with the WRONG guys that is! Hahahaha.
i don't mind friendly, flirtatious banter with guys online... can be fun. But like Allen told me very early on in our friendship (or what the fuck ever it was that we had), "Anything on the internet is just a fantasy. Friendships can be established but nothing more. People are never what they seem or are usually not who they pretend to be on the net."
I fought him tooth and nail on that one. I am who I am... I don't pretend to be anyone I'm not on the internet. Mainly because I am not going into it to find out who I can fuck around with... so really, no need to try to impress anyone and pretend I'm someone I'm not. And the people I've met in pogo... well, I always thought they were just who said they were.
But within a year, I really did discover that there are some super fakers out there. One bitch (Michelle, "ravinous-rage") was a super faker. But it was no big deal to me because I could take her or leave her friendship as she never really seemed all that real... I just always gave her the benefit of the doubt. Then of course... we all know who else turned out to be a big ass faker--though he was genuinely nice to some degree in person, I find that alot of what he leads people to believe about himself was totally a fantasy!
Hmmm... I don't see how eek-harmony could be any different. Even people on match.com are fake. I had a gf who joined match and ended up choosing this guy who said he was divorced and shit... turns out he was only divorced on match.com so he can get some pussy on the side... hmmm... nice, eh? I'd rather know up front if I'm just gonna be pussy galore or what so I can be prepared for that he's just a dick and nothing else. lol.... without the useless hopes of anything more.
So... I am curious to find what other people's thoughts are on this subject... to eek-harmony or not to eek-harmony, that is the question! Are online flings and such just a fantasy?? I've now adapted to that it IS just a fantasy because of all the disappointments I've had recently with men online, but is it really just that????
HAHAHAHAHAHA... I don't know about those sites. I'm sure they work for some people, but I can't imagine paying a website to hook me up with someone. Just seems so bizarre. But then again, my track record for using the net to hook up with someone has been pretty successful--for hooking up with the WRONG guys that is! Hahahaha.
i don't mind friendly, flirtatious banter with guys online... can be fun. But like Allen told me very early on in our friendship (or what the fuck ever it was that we had), "Anything on the internet is just a fantasy. Friendships can be established but nothing more. People are never what they seem or are usually not who they pretend to be on the net."
I fought him tooth and nail on that one. I am who I am... I don't pretend to be anyone I'm not on the internet. Mainly because I am not going into it to find out who I can fuck around with... so really, no need to try to impress anyone and pretend I'm someone I'm not. And the people I've met in pogo... well, I always thought they were just who said they were.
But within a year, I really did discover that there are some super fakers out there. One bitch (Michelle, "ravinous-rage") was a super faker. But it was no big deal to me because I could take her or leave her friendship as she never really seemed all that real... I just always gave her the benefit of the doubt. Then of course... we all know who else turned out to be a big ass faker--though he was genuinely nice to some degree in person, I find that alot of what he leads people to believe about himself was totally a fantasy!
Hmmm... I don't see how eek-harmony could be any different. Even people on match.com are fake. I had a gf who joined match and ended up choosing this guy who said he was divorced and shit... turns out he was only divorced on match.com so he can get some pussy on the side... hmmm... nice, eh? I'd rather know up front if I'm just gonna be pussy galore or what so I can be prepared for that he's just a dick and nothing else. lol.... without the useless hopes of anything more.
So... I am curious to find what other people's thoughts are on this subject... to eek-harmony or not to eek-harmony, that is the question! Are online flings and such just a fantasy?? I've now adapted to that it IS just a fantasy because of all the disappointments I've had recently with men online, but is it really just that????