Friends Mostly
My policies for friending are pretty simple:
Please put porn, XXX icons/images, etc. under a cut - I check my friends list in public - at the library, the museum where I volunteer and just at home where my parents are wandering about. I love my NC-17 fic and the fan art that comes with it, but that's not something I need popping up out in public (it would be awkward as hell)
Comment here - If you're going to friend me and you want me to friend you back, you have to tell me. Leave a comment here. Tell me how you found me or why you think we could be friends or about your favorite kind of jam. Just leave a note so lurker or rampant commenter, I have the chance to friend you back.
(love to ashavahista for providing such gorgeous JONAS caps)