"Before we go any further...Lets be friends" Whoduni
So the other night i totally had some vivid ass dreams. Usually i have them and i end up forgetting the main topic or main occurrence, but this one i remembered, most likely due to the subject. I tend to have dreams that apply to my life or are necessary for me to maintain a sense of awareness with myself. Usually they have a chance of coming true or being relevant to something i need to do or should have done.
This dream was one that paired me and someone i have grown very found of over the past 5 months and have slowly became really close with. I don't really feel a sense of lust between us, but I know we are so similar and so compatible, and i know we both can feel this. She is in California at the moment and i feel that is good thing, since i need to clear up my mind, this dream didn't help, or maybe it did.
She is on my mind often, but i don't know if i really like her that way. In the dream we were chilling out just being us and she reached over and told me "Aaron I like you" (i know this sounds so middleschool), but it wasn't, my reaction was just what i typed previous. One of confusion and not sure what to say, like i want to like you but i don't know if i do, or let me look away and try to change the subject; which in the dream i did, and i woke up contemplating was that what i would have done? Would I have said i like you too, and kissed her or would i have just backed off and been shy and confused? I totally think she is attractive and that she is wonderful but the lust factor is not there right now, i thought maybe its because she lives elsewhere so i try to evade that aspect and respect her, and respect our friendship that i cherish. Maybe its because i know thats not what our relationship is supposed to be about at the moment, and we are learning about eachother in a healthy fashion... But then I say to myself, she is just a friend and thats how it should be, or maybe its because she is Jewish and my mom, always says "when are you going to find a nice Jewish girl", hence i do the opposite! I need a good fortune cookie. She is moving here soon and i hope this dream sheds some light on this situation and prepares me if the crossroads of becoming more then friends decides to arise.
This dream was one that paired me and someone i have grown very found of over the past 5 months and have slowly became really close with. I don't really feel a sense of lust between us, but I know we are so similar and so compatible, and i know we both can feel this. She is in California at the moment and i feel that is good thing, since i need to clear up my mind, this dream didn't help, or maybe it did.
She is on my mind often, but i don't know if i really like her that way. In the dream we were chilling out just being us and she reached over and told me "Aaron I like you" (i know this sounds so middleschool), but it wasn't, my reaction was just what i typed previous. One of confusion and not sure what to say, like i want to like you but i don't know if i do, or let me look away and try to change the subject; which in the dream i did, and i woke up contemplating was that what i would have done? Would I have said i like you too, and kissed her or would i have just backed off and been shy and confused? I totally think she is attractive and that she is wonderful but the lust factor is not there right now, i thought maybe its because she lives elsewhere so i try to evade that aspect and respect her, and respect our friendship that i cherish. Maybe its because i know thats not what our relationship is supposed to be about at the moment, and we are learning about eachother in a healthy fashion... But then I say to myself, she is just a friend and thats how it should be, or maybe its because she is Jewish and my mom, always says "when are you going to find a nice Jewish girl", hence i do the opposite! I need a good fortune cookie. She is moving here soon and i hope this dream sheds some light on this situation and prepares me if the crossroads of becoming more then friends decides to arise.