Jan 01, 2013 23:45
So yeah, the nurse turned attorney who now works at a prestigious social justice/health organization in NYC... we talked for another hour tonight. This'll be the 2nd time we talk. We first talked on Friday night, for an hour. I'm getting ahead of myself considering she and I haven't actually met yet (one of those online dating scenarios)... but so far, on paper and on phone conversation, she feels more than right for me. And I guess I should be honored that someone a bit older than me is telling me that I seem like an old soul and how she never bothers wasting any of her time nor the other person's time if she gets the sense they aren't on her level, and she says she gets the sense of that really quickly when talking with someone. *blush*
The only glitch I see is that she is 11 years my elder.... hmmm.... she does do yoga A LOT, so is likely in better shape than I am with a hotter bod than I have.... One of my close friends who is a lot older than I am advised me, before I told her about this nurse turned attorney, to find someone a bit older and more experienced with the girl-on-girl one-on-one lifestyle to be with. So far, most women who are my age or younger just end up pissing me off due to their inconsideration. The ones 5 or more years older than me are way more considerate, smarter and sweeter... it's just their slight wrinkles are hard for me to get past. :/ The funniest part of the conversation was when I mentioned how I'd like to go to a poetry reading soonish... she got all alarmist in her tone, noting how enjoying poetry isn't in my online dating profile. Lmfao. Either she's got some serious memory, made it a point to memorize everything about my profile, had my profile up while we were talking, or is an attorney who enjoys lawyering people. I'm thinking memorized everything about my profile and has a really good memory... basing that on the fact that she took the time out of her busy work and yoga schedule to find reviews for a wine & tapas place she's never been to before to take me to and made a reservation a week in advance for our date. Wow, I'm more than touched - also blushing about how she suggested we go to that restaurant together, and then ride back together after (we live near each other)... like maybe she wants to keep the option open to fuck after. Though it could be she just wants to save some $$ or wants to scope out where I live. We'll see. In any event, I'm feeling really high about getting this much attention from someone who feels a little beyond my reach... she's extremely smart, extremely spiritual, very sensitive, has an amazing career I respect and can admire, and very good at communicating... and was telling me how I seem too good to be true. She does to me as well... hmm... I better get this one to fall in love with me fast and not consider thinking about anyone else romantically. I shall text her shortly after she gets to work, *thinking of you and wishing you a beautiful day*. I was going to go for *thinking of you and wishing you a beautiful day Beautiful*, but I don't want to shoot my wad of words too soon. This woman barely even replies to people's emails on the dating site, and here I am having hour long conversations with her, and having her want to wine and dine me, and talk with me often. It's refreshing to have a seemingly dreamy woman appreciate me, as opposed half of other women, who are inconsiderate bitches.