GOD, TAKE ME NOW!!
How is it that when you know something is never going to change it happen all in one hour.
My husband and I have had the hardest time talking to each other. I have been trying to get him to open up and talk to me but I predict the same thing will happen ever time. It scares him when I told him exactly what he was going to do and he did it. I guess in a way he stopped and saw that what he was doing is hiding from what he was really wanting to say. When he say "whatever" (after you have made it seem that he was wrong) means that "you are right and i’m going to try harder to listen to you".
I sat down and told him how I have felt this whole time we have been together and he really saw why i worry so much. I hate that once he leaves the house he will make worst decisions that effect me. Tonight ,for instance, he left the house when he was sick and hung out at his friends house. I never mind him hanging out with any of his friends but he needed to get better because he stayed out of work today. He decide to drink a beer with his friend after he took his antibiotics and he of course got so sick (he puked). Why am I not surprised you asked, well he never does the right thing.
When I asked him if he had a beer he lied and said nope. I told him that morning before I left that he shouldn’t drink any alcohol when he is on that medicine. He lied because he remember that i said that to him and he tucked his tail. He didn’t come home until 2 hours later because he knew that i would see that he got worst by doing so and i would catch him in his lies.
Why do guys lie? To hide their pride for a short bit so us women wont use it against them. Why did he lie? I don’t know really but it something that he now knows that its the only thing i get paranoid about. I can smell that he is lying as soon as he does it.
Well to sum this up, we are going to express ourself a little more. I keep thing bundled up and let it all out at once and he fibs the truth so he doesn’t take his pride away. He just doesn’t want me to thing that he cant do it without me. Its hard to give up and let someone help you but its even harder to get your man to give that up to you.
My husband and I have had the hardest time talking to each other. I have been trying to get him to open up and talk to me but I predict the same thing will happen ever time. It scares him when I told him exactly what he was going to do and he did it. I guess in a way he stopped and saw that what he was doing is hiding from what he was really wanting to say. When he say "whatever" (after you have made it seem that he was wrong) means that "you are right and i’m going to try harder to listen to you".
I sat down and told him how I have felt this whole time we have been together and he really saw why i worry so much. I hate that once he leaves the house he will make worst decisions that effect me. Tonight ,for instance, he left the house when he was sick and hung out at his friends house. I never mind him hanging out with any of his friends but he needed to get better because he stayed out of work today. He decide to drink a beer with his friend after he took his antibiotics and he of course got so sick (he puked). Why am I not surprised you asked, well he never does the right thing.
When I asked him if he had a beer he lied and said nope. I told him that morning before I left that he shouldn’t drink any alcohol when he is on that medicine. He lied because he remember that i said that to him and he tucked his tail. He didn’t come home until 2 hours later because he knew that i would see that he got worst by doing so and i would catch him in his lies.
Why do guys lie? To hide their pride for a short bit so us women wont use it against them. Why did he lie? I don’t know really but it something that he now knows that its the only thing i get paranoid about. I can smell that he is lying as soon as he does it.
Well to sum this up, we are going to express ourself a little more. I keep thing bundled up and let it all out at once and he fibs the truth so he doesn’t take his pride away. He just doesn’t want me to thing that he cant do it without me. Its hard to give up and let someone help you but its even harder to get your man to give that up to you.