What a great entry. Thanks for posting this. We've been dealing with the monogamy vs responsible non-monogamy for awhile now. He thinks I get too jealous and he just doesn't get that I wouldn't mind almost anything, as long as he remembers me! LOL! He doesn't have a huge sex drive (like I do) and I want to make sure I get my share. After that, I'm pretty good as long as we don't put a revolving door at the entrance of our bedroom.
Glad to hear things are going so well for you. Quite happy.
Can't wait to hear what happens when Y gets home. Make sure to tell ALL!
And you don't worry about the fluid bonding before the HIV testing?
Well, we've both tested regularly enough that we are both comfortable with our status. Y was already plannin to go to this event in Indiana before we started dating. Rather than have him feel he couldn't have fun, I made it clear that safe play would be totally acceptable. The test we're doing after he gets back will mark a period of monogamy between us. We've already had first conversations about what might happen after, but I see no reason to rush that.
I suppose that we could had gone by the letter and waited for fluid bonding, but in the moment -- riding on top of him, looking into his eyes as he whimpered "are you sure?" -- there was nothing I wanted more than to take him inside me. Damn, I got hard just remembering it. :-)
Glad to hear things are going so well for you. Quite happy.
Can't wait to hear what happens when Y gets home. Make sure to tell ALL!
And you don't worry about the fluid bonding before the HIV testing?
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Oh and the HIV testing is going to be *after* and because of the bear event I believe....
Damn I want that icon.....
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...and the icon has my screen name on it. It wouldn't be good for you...
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I suppose that we could had gone by the letter and waited for fluid bonding, but in the moment -- riding on top of him, looking into his eyes as he whimpered "are you sure?" -- there was nothing I wanted more than to take him inside me. Damn, I got hard just remembering it. :-)
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