Weekend Update
It had been many months since some of the Lodge usuals had gotten together. L serves as a kind of social focal point of our troupe and she'd been on a ship for several months. But having decided to retire and come home, we agreed this would be a good time for a nice welcome home celebration, kink style!
I had been burning my candle from both ends and the middle lately, so I decided I really needed to slow the trollup trolley down, to ensure I'd be in the best mind and energy space for the weekend. I really had no idea what was to happen -- except that we would be visiting with good friends, welcoming L back home, and taking the rest as it came.
We showed up a little early on Saturday to help do any final preparation before everyone else arrived. Along the way, though, we learned that H&B and C wouldn't be able to make it to the party. I was a little sad about that, but life happens... ya know? :-) We'd no sooner arrived back from our shopping and putting stuff away when B&R arrived. What timing! We had a meal collision, but we decided to go with the homemade variety and it was very yummy. A arrived as we were eating and it was nice to see her again after a long break.
L was really itching for some play, and she was not disappointed. The mood was very light and fun... at moments B was laughing so hard he was literally ROFL. The energy was great. :-) My turn came a bit later. Since I'd let myself chill a bit from the frentic pace during the week, I was in a much more mellow place for this scene. It made it easier for me to relax and engage in headspace. The dynamic that R and I have in our PE is so natural... I adore her. We hadn't really had an opportunity to talk much in many months, so we enjoyed an extended conversation during aftercare. I touched on some things I'd been pondering in the last few months, some of it triggered by play experiences and conversations with others. I'll blog separately about that stuff as it gathers in my head.
We spent the rest of the evening visiting, until A and then B&R had to head home. S and I stayed at the Lodge overnight, as we planned to see B&R's new home on Sunday. We all met for breakfast on Sunday morning and then ambled over to B&R's place -- with a few very interesting detours... hehehe OMG! It's amazing!!
We visited, L bratted, and after a while we decided to have some more fun. So it was off to the play space! R and I played again, only in different spots this time. :-) It's usually much harder for me to process pain on my front -- I think mostly because it's very rare people play there -- but I felt myself relaxing and processing it better than I have in the past. I suspect the intensity was less than we've done in the past, but that doesn't matter so much to me when the PE is good and we're dancing together. :-)
As we were finishing up our aftercare, R mentioned some new toys she had only just got and hadn't had a chance to use yet: weights for CBT. I shared that I'd done ball stretching with leather bits before but hadn't used weights up to this point. So after a little more conversation we agreed to try it out. Here you can see me with about 8 pounds of weight and R using a stingy toy on my squishy bits. :-)
I really enjoyed this. The weights were sublime -- only after a while did the rope start to bite in more, and since we were just exploring this time R decided to untie me at that point. And I already knew from my own experience what the bondage and tugging of the weights was doing to the skin on my sack -- I sometimes paddle my balls to orgasm without doing anything else. As R and I explored and discussed how different intensities and patterns of paddling felt, there were more than a few moments where I was in pain piggy heaven (see below).
I really do hope we get to do more of this in the future. I was so struck by how much I enjoyed the weights, I actually tried swinging by Leather Masters after work yesterday. Yeah, I got all the way over there and remembered the moment I saw the dark storefront that they aren't open on Mondays. wah!! I might try to hit it again tonight before Subspace discussion group. We'll see...but I wants me some heavy stuff to do more play like this. :D
Afterward, we had a lovely and very tasty dinner. L really spun up her brat... I think it's just been too long for her without regular play. We reluctantly decided to call a close to our evening together. I was really hungry to see her get a good beating, but it was getting late on Sunday and we all had work the next day. We bid our fond farewells and I'm sure we'll be making a point not to wait so long to all get together again next time. :-)
*hugs* to you all... you are all so special and dear to me. An especially big hug to R. :-)
I had been burning my candle from both ends and the middle lately, so I decided I really needed to slow the trollup trolley down, to ensure I'd be in the best mind and energy space for the weekend. I really had no idea what was to happen -- except that we would be visiting with good friends, welcoming L back home, and taking the rest as it came.
We showed up a little early on Saturday to help do any final preparation before everyone else arrived. Along the way, though, we learned that H&B and C wouldn't be able to make it to the party. I was a little sad about that, but life happens... ya know? :-) We'd no sooner arrived back from our shopping and putting stuff away when B&R arrived. What timing! We had a meal collision, but we decided to go with the homemade variety and it was very yummy. A arrived as we were eating and it was nice to see her again after a long break.
L was really itching for some play, and she was not disappointed. The mood was very light and fun... at moments B was laughing so hard he was literally ROFL. The energy was great. :-) My turn came a bit later. Since I'd let myself chill a bit from the frentic pace during the week, I was in a much more mellow place for this scene. It made it easier for me to relax and engage in headspace. The dynamic that R and I have in our PE is so natural... I adore her. We hadn't really had an opportunity to talk much in many months, so we enjoyed an extended conversation during aftercare. I touched on some things I'd been pondering in the last few months, some of it triggered by play experiences and conversations with others. I'll blog separately about that stuff as it gathers in my head.
We spent the rest of the evening visiting, until A and then B&R had to head home. S and I stayed at the Lodge overnight, as we planned to see B&R's new home on Sunday. We all met for breakfast on Sunday morning and then ambled over to B&R's place -- with a few very interesting detours... hehehe OMG! It's amazing!!
We visited, L bratted, and after a while we decided to have some more fun. So it was off to the play space! R and I played again, only in different spots this time. :-) It's usually much harder for me to process pain on my front -- I think mostly because it's very rare people play there -- but I felt myself relaxing and processing it better than I have in the past. I suspect the intensity was less than we've done in the past, but that doesn't matter so much to me when the PE is good and we're dancing together. :-)
As we were finishing up our aftercare, R mentioned some new toys she had only just got and hadn't had a chance to use yet: weights for CBT. I shared that I'd done ball stretching with leather bits before but hadn't used weights up to this point. So after a little more conversation we agreed to try it out. Here you can see me with about 8 pounds of weight and R using a stingy toy on my squishy bits. :-)
I really enjoyed this. The weights were sublime -- only after a while did the rope start to bite in more, and since we were just exploring this time R decided to untie me at that point. And I already knew from my own experience what the bondage and tugging of the weights was doing to the skin on my sack -- I sometimes paddle my balls to orgasm without doing anything else. As R and I explored and discussed how different intensities and patterns of paddling felt, there were more than a few moments where I was in pain piggy heaven (see below).
I really do hope we get to do more of this in the future. I was so struck by how much I enjoyed the weights, I actually tried swinging by Leather Masters after work yesterday. Yeah, I got all the way over there and remembered the moment I saw the dark storefront that they aren't open on Mondays. wah!! I might try to hit it again tonight before Subspace discussion group. We'll see...but I wants me some heavy stuff to do more play like this. :D
Afterward, we had a lovely and very tasty dinner. L really spun up her brat... I think it's just been too long for her without regular play. We reluctantly decided to call a close to our evening together. I was really hungry to see her get a good beating, but it was getting late on Sunday and we all had work the next day. We bid our fond farewells and I'm sure we'll be making a point not to wait so long to all get together again next time. :-)
*hugs* to you all... you are all so special and dear to me. An especially big hug to R. :-)