SO CALLED FRIENDS
Well I was having a good day today, that was until a friend, (and I now use that term very loosely) turned up at my front door this afternoon. The person has been suspended from her job for a few weeks now and at her disciplenary hearing I sat in with her as she asked for my support and being me I didn't refuse..........jing's I so wish I had. To cut a long story short I heard from her a few times after that where basically she did nothing but ask me questions about what had been said as she'd missed a lot of it and what was being said about her.....to be honest it upset me at the time as she made me feel so inadequate and that somehow I knew more that I was letting on. Also she kept on bringing up something similar that happened to me years ago and made me quite ill at the time, and I really didn't need that as it took me a few years to get over it, but she kept going on and on about it.
Anyway she stopped calling and I thought it was all over, how wrong could I be, so there she was on my door-step wanting my help again for an appeal, I just can't go through that again so I'm going to have to lie (which I hate doing) and tell her I've got something on that day, jeez I so hate being put in this position, especially when it's so obvious she's just using me for her own ends.
Sorry to ramble but I just had to get this said to someone.