Feb 21, 2010 21:37
Sorry if I de-friended you. I've realised I've been way too lenient with my friending lately. I'm tired of being paranoid that there are people on my friends list who don't like me. Every time I let any one comment anonymously, someone always comes forward with an insult.
I've avoided doing a friends cut for a long time now, because I was scared of any feelings I might hurt. If I hurt your feelings, I'm sorry. I either cut you because: I don't know you very well yet (and I realise this is unfair to a lot of people who have recently added me) or you never comment.
I only kept people on who I feel I can trust and who do not dislike me. There were a few people I recently added that I did not cut. I have observed you talking to my other friends as well as other people and get a good vibe from you that you can be trusted.
This does not mean I got a vibe from every one else I cut that they couldn't be. Just that I got no vibe at all, so I went ahead and cut them. I only kept people on who I got good vibes from. The rest, I cut. To be honest, I thought I was rather lenient on who I cut. I could have gone with people I know for a fact like me and I can trust incredibly. That list would be much smaller.
I'm sorry for doing this, but it was necessary. I'm not going to add any one back, so don't ask.