Negativity
This year I kinda made the resolution to have less negativity in my life. I have enough responsibility to deal with when it comes to my parents. My fathers health is declining at a good pace and I am his guardian and trustee with that comes dealing with my mother. She decided to shack up with an awful human being that has ruined her financially and robbed her of having an normal association with her children at this point. That is negativity I can not neglect because it causes my father to be neglected and not cared for. Anyways this rant stems from this afternoon on facebook. Last weekend we had originally planned to have a couple friend over for games. We ended up cancelling because Dan and I needed a little time to ourselves before the new baby arrives. Then this morning he was talking to couple friend number 2 and made plans for a games night this upcoming friday. Since I still had to redeem the raincheck/cancellation from the week before I thought we would make the games night a little bigger. I am almost 38 weeks pregnant I don't have the energy or will power to entertain a vast amount of people so I invited those 2 couples plus a few more that would appreciate the company. After the invite went out with was open I get a "what did I do the deserve this?" email because she didn't recieve an invite. For one thing the last time I invited her somewhere it was a last minute guilt invite. Number 2 I have heard my friend bitch about her. Number 3 her boyfriend/whatever got fired by one of the others invited. The list goes on. The most noticeable thing is that she does not appreciate what handouts she gets and doesn't work hard. When she gets fired she always looks for pity and makes the employer look like a dick though that is not the case. If it wasn't for facebook I wouldn't have even ever got back in contact with her. So in light of this development today I took the action of removing her from my friends list since that is negativity I can do without.