Save the drama for your mama.
Some stuff really amazes me.
People are constantly dissapointing me. And not just dissapointing me in a normal sense of making a mistake and annoying me. Dissapointing me in the sort of way where they argue endlessly about how "theyre differnet" and then they go and do exactly what they argue they'd never do. They complain that people label them and then they live up to those labels almost religiously.
And it hurts me.
Why? You might be suprised. Its not because I was "that stupid" and trusted someone's word.
It's because I trust people initially, regardless of whether I should or not. It's because I believe people the first time around-- in my book, you're good until you show your true colors.
So why does everyone have to HAVE true colors that are so ugly?
And
Look, honestly, I do have a huge problem with my friends flipping out at me and telling me Ive made a horrible choice and there for, exact words, "i dont feel bad for a damn thing that happens to you". Thank you. Its nice to know that youre friends with someone until they make a bad decision and in that case, they can have anything happen to them. Seriously, have you ever made a mistake? Dont you know how easy it is, how many times a fucking DAY most poeple make one!?!? AND BESIDES, when did I say I wanted you to feel bad?
NEVER.
I have never wanted pity.
I have never wanted judgement either.
Real friends dont judge eachother-- theres enough people in our lives that are going to judge us by our decisions, why would we pick more?
SAVE THE DRAMA FOR YOUR MAMA.
People are constantly dissapointing me. And not just dissapointing me in a normal sense of making a mistake and annoying me. Dissapointing me in the sort of way where they argue endlessly about how "theyre differnet" and then they go and do exactly what they argue they'd never do. They complain that people label them and then they live up to those labels almost religiously.
And it hurts me.
Why? You might be suprised. Its not because I was "that stupid" and trusted someone's word.
It's because I trust people initially, regardless of whether I should or not. It's because I believe people the first time around-- in my book, you're good until you show your true colors.
So why does everyone have to HAVE true colors that are so ugly?
And
Look, honestly, I do have a huge problem with my friends flipping out at me and telling me Ive made a horrible choice and there for, exact words, "i dont feel bad for a damn thing that happens to you". Thank you. Its nice to know that youre friends with someone until they make a bad decision and in that case, they can have anything happen to them. Seriously, have you ever made a mistake? Dont you know how easy it is, how many times a fucking DAY most poeple make one!?!? AND BESIDES, when did I say I wanted you to feel bad?
NEVER.
I have never wanted pity.
I have never wanted judgement either.
Real friends dont judge eachother-- theres enough people in our lives that are going to judge us by our decisions, why would we pick more?
SAVE THE DRAMA FOR YOUR MAMA.