awkwardness is not cool
its so awkward when one of your friends has a crush on another friend.
Brema has developed a crush on Ryan. now i know that he would never go out with her. not that theres anything wrong with her, shes beautiful and has a great spirit, and a fantastic sense of humor. shes one of my best friends. and i want her to be happy. but i just know that ryan likes skinny little wilting flower damsel in distress girls. and brema is definitely not that.
it becomes an awkward situation because when we're together brema's talking about how she wants to flirt with ryan, and I just want everyone to be friends and have a good time. I dont want any awkwardness to happen and then not be able to be together with everyone. The four of us are supposed to go to Disneyworld together in 3 weeks, after Urinetown closes, and I dont want brema to try anything. I just want everyone to HAVE A GOOD TIME AND BE FRIENDS!!! I just dont want to have to worry about her trying anything.
I just know the kind of girl ryan goes for. and it is not her. She's too spunky for him, too loud. hes a private person, he needs another private person and i think he finds the sexual jokes she makes funny but not attractive. thats what brema has to realize, she puts herself out there as one of the guys. shes not afraid to make uncouth cracks which is what people love about her, but also what scares some guys away. in the same way that she and i talk about some of the dates shes gone on where guys reveal things about themselves that you dont necessarily want to say on a first date, she i think comes on strong too. And I've tried to hint this to her.
Ive definitely told her (gently) what i think of her and ryan. trying to emphasize that ryan's type is waify girls with no personality. this is what seems to attract him right now. if he doesnt find brema attractive its a fault of his not hers but he DOESNT. and i think he would go on a date with her to be polite and it wouldnt go well and she would get upset. the other scenario is she tries something at disney and we have to spend awkward days together with these two people who are at odds.
i just want everyone to be friends. is that so hard??
Brema has developed a crush on Ryan. now i know that he would never go out with her. not that theres anything wrong with her, shes beautiful and has a great spirit, and a fantastic sense of humor. shes one of my best friends. and i want her to be happy. but i just know that ryan likes skinny little wilting flower damsel in distress girls. and brema is definitely not that.
it becomes an awkward situation because when we're together brema's talking about how she wants to flirt with ryan, and I just want everyone to be friends and have a good time. I dont want any awkwardness to happen and then not be able to be together with everyone. The four of us are supposed to go to Disneyworld together in 3 weeks, after Urinetown closes, and I dont want brema to try anything. I just want everyone to HAVE A GOOD TIME AND BE FRIENDS!!! I just dont want to have to worry about her trying anything.
I just know the kind of girl ryan goes for. and it is not her. She's too spunky for him, too loud. hes a private person, he needs another private person and i think he finds the sexual jokes she makes funny but not attractive. thats what brema has to realize, she puts herself out there as one of the guys. shes not afraid to make uncouth cracks which is what people love about her, but also what scares some guys away. in the same way that she and i talk about some of the dates shes gone on where guys reveal things about themselves that you dont necessarily want to say on a first date, she i think comes on strong too. And I've tried to hint this to her.
Ive definitely told her (gently) what i think of her and ryan. trying to emphasize that ryan's type is waify girls with no personality. this is what seems to attract him right now. if he doesnt find brema attractive its a fault of his not hers but he DOESNT. and i think he would go on a date with her to be polite and it wouldnt go well and she would get upset. the other scenario is she tries something at disney and we have to spend awkward days together with these two people who are at odds.
i just want everyone to be friends. is that so hard??