An Experiment into the Benign

Dec 08, 2010 12:13

Life, it put it mildly, has been very sweet. I have a full plate of projects, work continues to be an enjoyment (even among the things i don't enjoy that come with it), and socially it's like MFF is still happening. My stress has been low in most respects and even on downing days something has happened to pick it right back up to make me smile and ( Read more... )

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tozier_wah December 10 2010, 16:02:07 UTC
These are separate events that are being linked together from your perspective. I've found that actually writing, typing out exactly how I talk, helps my formation of thoughts and sentences be more clear (at least to me) and assists readers that have spoken with me in person a fair amount. This isn't implying we haven't spoken a fair amount in person, because I'd say we have, but w/o a doubt agreeing, does appear to be condescending when put into text format. It is the opposite if that can be stated.

Over all, considering the past past year I have been very happy but the causes for happiness have changed in significant ways. Some of which would not be appropriate to post on a public form, but the ending and current result is being Happy and working on things that improve that status :)
The rosy reply is directly toward the friends and family part of your tweet. My family has a lot, my family does a lot, and there is a lot I don't like and don't talk about typically on my family. Friends are not in any standing because I know the standing of where friends are at. However that doesn't please because of the reasons behind them but understandable none the less. Is there something a little more direct you'd like to ask? I've tried to answer this in what information I know you have atm.

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pounce_de_leon December 10 2010, 16:10:00 UTC
Ok, in the same vein, you've once again brought up "we haven't spoken a fair amount in person." We've known each other for four and a half years now yet basically remain strangers, and in this post, you decidedly choose to again "leave me with the information I already know."

Are you aware that in these four years, you've only called me by my name twice? Or that you've cut down at least two of my crushes by telling me that "they wouldn't like someone like me"?

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tozier_wah December 10 2010, 18:53:21 UTC
There seems to be multiple questions in this one, including the prior so I'll try to address all of them. However, please remember to put all new questions as a new line. I also said Im going to gear the answers towards each person and my knowledge of them and which is why I'd prefer users logged in vs questions from Anom but respect the Anom just the same.

The first and best answer to summarize your original question is nothing is wrong. I did need to dodge in explaining some of the happiness I've had, and again that is due the privacy of that issue (meaning it involves more then just myself). But otherwise, that question is so broad I did the best I could to narrow it down for an answer for you.
The next part that seems to be the question "Why haven't we spoken more after knowing each other for so long?" which I don't have a suitable answer I can give or one that at least even I'm happy with. Similar interests, overlapping schedules, flow of conversation when we do have it, lack there of conversations, any number plus or minus could contribute to it. How or where to start it is really the part im hung up on.
For the third and forth part, I don't keep track of addressing people by their names. I actually have a habit of swapping peoples fur names for their birth names with no underlying reason unless irritation is involved, then it's birth name. As for cutting down crushes of yours, I honestly haven't the slightest memory of this right now but any ill advice I'd given you Im sorry for. I won't say I can't see that coming from me, because I probably could say it, but I'd be struck if I didn't provide enough backing reason for that harsh of a statement. Again, I apologies.

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