An Experiment into the Benign

[tozier_wah]

Life, it put it mildly, has been very sweet. I have a full plate of projects, work continues to be an enjoyment (even among the things i don't enjoy that come with it), and socially it's like MFF is still happening. My stress has been low in most respects and even on downing days something has happened to pick it right back up to make me smile and

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[tozier_wah]

Perceivably I'll have a long life ahead of me to find and to be with another(s). That being said, it's possible I'd also have a long time to maybe just wait if not the whole time. I think, right now, I can be Content with not sharing my life with anyone on *key* an emotionally bonbed relationship. I define key as 'this person is not bound to me therefor it is unfair for both parties to be attached beyond this moment.' I do however view and believe that a monogamous is the only suitable relationship for myself. Srsrly, it's hard enough to work toward someone's happiness and maintain and you'd want to try for a second one???

The boyfriend part aside, I find friendships invaluable and each one gained or lost is like adding or destroying a part of one's self. My view goes like this: Take a person and put them someplace by themselves: a forest or a city or where ever they'd be comfortable to live their life. That person will go about and act a certain way, by themselves living that life. Introduce another person, doing the same thing in a respect, maybe this person was set on finding another person until now they found one another, it doesn't matter. Now both people will start acting and doing different things for/part of themselves that they wouldn't have been doing prior.
There are loopholes and ect to this so it's a very basic and simple analogy and shouldn't be looked into beyond that. The ending point that matters, to me, is each person brings out something new or different in another person, good or bad in respects. That's still invaluable and is only subject to question of what you do with it.