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yes everyone, i get it, break-ups suck.
last i checked i was the one in this broken relationship so im pretty aware of how much it sucks.
yes, i know it sucks more when a kid is involved..oh yeah cause uhm thats MY kid i dont get to see everyday now.
and since youre not all mind readers let me just say it also really sucks being with someone for years when you dont love them anymore...yeah especially when you have a kid together..because this is also splitting up a family.
but staying when the love in one sided is not a good solution..and it has worn me down these past couple years.
i left greg because i dont love him.
i did not leave my daughter.
i am not doing this as some sick joke to test how much i can get away with and then run back to greg.
that romantic relationship is over and only friendship can remain.
i cannot force myself to go back because everyone keeps saying it was wrong to leave..im sorry but this is not a fucking democracy.
this is my choice and hate it all you want but it is still ONLY my choice.
and since youre not all following me around on a daily basis, i am trying to be as much a part of my daughters life as greg will allow..but so far thats not the easiest thing in the world for him.
you are entitled to your opinions on this and if you feel the need to pick a side you can..i would hope that all mutual friends can stay mutual friends but that is not my decision to make.
this is not a war, the end has already happened..greg and i are done as a couple.
what happens now with frankie is up to greg and i or possibly a judge..i would appreciate it if rumors dont get spread.these last two weeks have been one very fucked up game of telephone..you do not have to respect my decision but please remember that there is a child involved and spreading rumors hurts greg and i which in turn hurts her.
i hope that greg and i find a good solution to custody of frankie because we are the best parents for her..we just arent the best for each other.
last i checked i was the one in this broken relationship so im pretty aware of how much it sucks.
yes, i know it sucks more when a kid is involved..oh yeah cause uhm thats MY kid i dont get to see everyday now.
and since youre not all mind readers let me just say it also really sucks being with someone for years when you dont love them anymore...yeah especially when you have a kid together..because this is also splitting up a family.
but staying when the love in one sided is not a good solution..and it has worn me down these past couple years.
i left greg because i dont love him.
i did not leave my daughter.
i am not doing this as some sick joke to test how much i can get away with and then run back to greg.
that romantic relationship is over and only friendship can remain.
i cannot force myself to go back because everyone keeps saying it was wrong to leave..im sorry but this is not a fucking democracy.
this is my choice and hate it all you want but it is still ONLY my choice.
and since youre not all following me around on a daily basis, i am trying to be as much a part of my daughters life as greg will allow..but so far thats not the easiest thing in the world for him.
you are entitled to your opinions on this and if you feel the need to pick a side you can..i would hope that all mutual friends can stay mutual friends but that is not my decision to make.
this is not a war, the end has already happened..greg and i are done as a couple.
what happens now with frankie is up to greg and i or possibly a judge..i would appreciate it if rumors dont get spread.these last two weeks have been one very fucked up game of telephone..you do not have to respect my decision but please remember that there is a child involved and spreading rumors hurts greg and i which in turn hurts her.
i hope that greg and i find a good solution to custody of frankie because we are the best parents for her..we just arent the best for each other.