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I have nothing prolific to speak about. I am no entertainer. I am simply me. And for many people, that just isn't enough.
I told someone at work that being a good guy doesn't matter these days, because it really doesn't. You can be a GREAT guy, caring, insightful, attentive, funny, charismatic... it only gets you so far, and that being a good guy just makes you a pushover. They responded that I just haven't met the right girl yet. They don't even know I'm seeing anyone. I dunno.
I think Sarah is the most amazing woman, and I want her to be in my life, but she can be so miserable sometimes, I don't know what to do. Sometimes I think to myself that if I was the right person for her, I could calm her down, make her laugh, get her to come sit with me and hold my hand and just breathe. But I can't. She's just not like that... it's not who she is. So... who am I to change her. Who's to say she's wrong? Or that I'm right?
I either need a major change in perspective, or she does. Either way, it's hard-pressed to happen.
I told someone at work that being a good guy doesn't matter these days, because it really doesn't. You can be a GREAT guy, caring, insightful, attentive, funny, charismatic... it only gets you so far, and that being a good guy just makes you a pushover. They responded that I just haven't met the right girl yet. They don't even know I'm seeing anyone. I dunno.
I think Sarah is the most amazing woman, and I want her to be in my life, but she can be so miserable sometimes, I don't know what to do. Sometimes I think to myself that if I was the right person for her, I could calm her down, make her laugh, get her to come sit with me and hold my hand and just breathe. But I can't. She's just not like that... it's not who she is. So... who am I to change her. Who's to say she's wrong? Or that I'm right?
I either need a major change in perspective, or she does. Either way, it's hard-pressed to happen.