you did do all of the domestic stuff when we lived together, and you prompted me a few times to care better for precious and smith. i think that counts.
well. here smitten is a short staffed fuckin mess and jax neglected the cats while i was gone, cory's apartment flooded and precious almost burned our place down. in japan i ran into some people i didnt expect and a whole lotta trouble i really didnt expect. i gotta go back there and deal with it but i dont trust anyone to take care of themselves without me after this.
good? that's a turnaround, huh? what's goin on with you?
You shouldn't leave animals with someone who won't take care of them. That's fucked.
And, yeah. I've always cared about other people. That's half my fucking problem. I'd be better off if I didn't give a shit about people who don't give a shit about me.
They're all adults. If they're old enough for you to fuck then they're old enough to look after themselves. That's fact.
i know it's fucked. my poor girls. i thought he could handle it, he manages fine every other damn day, i dunno why me bein gone made such a difference.
who do you care about that doesnt care about you?
they're not actin like adults. and that's a ridiculous statement, sex has nothin to do with self-care. they're old enough to fuck and to take some responsibility, some of em just dont
i was anticipatin difficult. insane and violent, not so much.
No. It's not a ridiculous statement. If someone doesn't have the basic emotional and psychological health to take care of themselves then they don't have the basic emotional and psychological health to be committing to adult relationships.
I suspect however you're right. They all can look after themselves just fine. They just don't want to.
Just usual 4th of July stuff. BBQ. Hanging out. All the stuff people do. I forgot how hot the South is. Haven't been there in a long time. Not since I left actually.
sure sounds ridiculous to me. does that mean on your bad days, when you cant look after yourself right, you aint mature enough to fuck?
not all of em, not precious. but jax definitely. he's more than capable of feedin the cats, he just cared more about coke than their health. which was shitty of him.
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some parts of these are scary accurate, huh? but i seriously don't see you as a chef. interior designer, maybe.
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I doubt you agree with much of mine - but, no. I'd surely not be a chef.
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Just a feeling I have.
How you going?
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stressed, mostly. overwhelmed. there's a fuck of a lot goin on. you?
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Eh. I doubt you think I'm great at taking care of people.
I'm sorry to hear that. What's going on?
I'm good, yeah.
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well. here smitten is a short staffed fuckin mess and jax neglected the cats while i was gone, cory's apartment flooded and precious almost burned our place down. in japan i ran into some people i didnt expect and a whole lotta trouble i really didnt expect. i gotta go back there and deal with it but i dont trust anyone to take care of themselves without me after this.
good? that's a turnaround, huh? what's goin on with you?
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You shouldn't leave animals with someone who won't take care of them. That's fucked.
And, yeah. I've always cared about other people. That's half my fucking problem. I'd be better off if I didn't give a shit about people who don't give a shit about me.
They're all adults. If they're old enough for you to fuck then they're old enough to look after themselves. That's fact.
I'm sorry Japan was difficult.
And a fire, huh? Deja vu.
I went to Texas for 4th of July.
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who do you care about that doesnt care about you?
they're not actin like adults. and that's a ridiculous statement, sex has nothin to do with self-care. they're old enough to fuck and to take some responsibility, some of em just dont
i was anticipatin difficult. insane and violent, not so much.
yeah? that's awesome. what'd you do there?
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No. It's not a ridiculous statement. If someone doesn't have the basic emotional and psychological health to take care of themselves then they don't have the basic emotional and psychological health to be committing to adult relationships.
I suspect however you're right. They all can look after themselves just fine. They just don't want to.
Just usual 4th of July stuff. BBQ. Hanging out. All the stuff people do. I forgot how hot the South is. Haven't been there in a long time. Not since I left actually.
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not all of em, not precious. but jax definitely. he's more than capable of feedin the cats, he just cared more about coke than their health. which was shitty of him.
sounds like a good time. who were you with?
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Alex.
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which one is alex?
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I do say so. If I'm so fucked up I'm not functioning then what I need isn't a sexual relationship. I need love without that.
... What does that mean? Which one?
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it means which dude are you talkin about? was he one of the brits?
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