Of Stones that Fits
I received this particular message from my friend which is rather intriguing.
Dating can be considered like finding stones that fits your hand. Some stones would be too small, big, sharp or simply too irregular. Sometimes in our lives, we tend to pick up stones and lets loose just because the stones do not fit. But instead of finding a stone that fit, why not polish your stone and make it fit in your life?
In my perspective of dating, I know its quite impossible to ask someone to change for you, and its even harder to make that someone change in a short amount of time. Why make someone change when the saying goes a leopard never changes its spots. It is not impossible to change someone, but the only factor is time. A river can change its course when the water is flowing down for many years, washing away sand and also soil but most importantly, even stones can bee smoothened when the water hits onto it for a long period of time. Its only a matter of will and time and honestly, I don't like changing people.
Dating can be considered like finding stones that fits your hand. Some stones would be too small, big, sharp or simply too irregular. Sometimes in our lives, we tend to pick up stones and lets loose just because the stones do not fit. But instead of finding a stone that fit, why not polish your stone and make it fit in your life?
In my perspective of dating, I know its quite impossible to ask someone to change for you, and its even harder to make that someone change in a short amount of time. Why make someone change when the saying goes a leopard never changes its spots. It is not impossible to change someone, but the only factor is time. A river can change its course when the water is flowing down for many years, washing away sand and also soil but most importantly, even stones can bee smoothened when the water hits onto it for a long period of time. Its only a matter of will and time and honestly, I don't like changing people.