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[torturemykat]

serious question

When you find out that someone extremely close to you lied to you about something that you are trying to let go of what would you do?

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[heinous_x]

Confront them about the lie or betrayal. If they don't want to own up to it and muster up a simple "I'm sorry, it won't happen again", in my opinion, you shouldn't be close friends with them anymore.

Just my two cents

[torturemykat]

Thanks for the comment.

I dug a bit deeper into the story and of course there are two sides. Everything is fine now.

I can't help but to read into this. I told you guys my side and you weren't interested. There was no apology that was owed. It sucks for me to have had to lose 2 of the most important people in my life over it. But I guess this is how life works.

DO me a favor though. The next time you feel nostalgic and want to talk again for a few days...don't do it unless you plan to keep talking to me. It was really hard for me again.

[heinous_x]

DO me a favor though. The next time you feel nostalgic and want to talk again for a few days...don't do it unless you plan to keep talking to me. It was really hard for me again.

Ali started talking to Kaiti again at around the same time that I wanted to 'make peace' with you. "Somehow" she (Kaiti) knows about the things that happened last year. We didn't appreciate that. Instead of making a big shit about it I just let it go. It hurt.

[torturemykat]

I don't remember how I started talking to Kaiti again. It was a brief period of time. I think it was when she was coming into Chart Hits for the O.C. I told her that we were talking again and then when you stopped talking to me I told her that too. She knew before that you guys stopped talking to me because of Kristina. I didn't lie to her about anything. I didn't talk shit. I told her the truth. It wasn't about bad-mouthing you and Ali. Jesus, G, am I that low? It makes me wonder if you guys didn't know me at all.

I am glad that I know why you guys went away again.

[heinous_x]

We trusted you with all the drama that happened. Out of everyone else, when things went down the crapper, we called you first and asked you not to tell anyone else about what had happened. It might not have been talking shit and telling the truth, but you told her about all the crap that went on between her and I. That's what I'm talking about.

[torturemykat]

Wait, what are you talking about?

[heinous_x]

Kaiti can't really keep secrets. I don't want to get into specifics on here, but remember mid-may last year, close to ali's birthday? Some things happened between her and I which we confided in you (and only you) about. Well, it got back to Ali from Kaiti.

[torturemykat]

Oh ok. I know what you are talking about. I think I do remember talking to Kaiti about that. I remember that she already knew it because she talks to Geoff. We did talk about that. I didn't tell her anything she didn't already know. I am sorry if I hurt you guys but it wasn't intentional.

[heinous_x]

She sure acted like it was from you. But thank you for the apology.

[torturemykat]

Everytime she came in it was very brief. I remember me being upset because I had been trying to im you but you didn't respond and I told her. And then the Geoff thing somehow came up. I remember talking about how I was there for you guys but it didn't matter much because we aren't friends now. It went something like that. I didn't tell her anything she didn't already know. I don't expect you to believe me but Kaiti knows all of the ppl that were involved so it's not hard to imagine that she didn't already know. Geoff has talked to me about it a few times. Anyway, sorry if I caused more problems. It seriously was not planned.