(no subject)
how important is sex?
i guess it depends on who you are talking to.
i don't need it or want it that often but it is hard for my counterpart to understand.
i know he needs he more than i do , but does he really?
People want sex, they don't need it. Is that correct?
I guess it could be like caffiene but does one really need it?
I understand that I have to meet his needs as well but what if I don't feel the same? What if I don't want to? Not because I don't love him or because I'm not attracted to him. I just don't want it right now. I know I don't need it to get by.
I'm more dazed and confused then anyting. He says that I am hurting him but he is hurting me right back. If i'm hurting him it's not on purpose. Don't we let ourselves get hurt. Someone can say or do anything but it is up to us to react, not them.
Strangely enough, I'm not angry. I'm just very confused about what love is really supposed to be. I don't want someone saying they don't want to be in the same bed with me anymore because we in a dry spell.
:slams head on table:
i guess it depends on who you are talking to.
i don't need it or want it that often but it is hard for my counterpart to understand.
i know he needs he more than i do , but does he really?
People want sex, they don't need it. Is that correct?
I guess it could be like caffiene but does one really need it?
I understand that I have to meet his needs as well but what if I don't feel the same? What if I don't want to? Not because I don't love him or because I'm not attracted to him. I just don't want it right now. I know I don't need it to get by.
I'm more dazed and confused then anyting. He says that I am hurting him but he is hurting me right back. If i'm hurting him it's not on purpose. Don't we let ourselves get hurt. Someone can say or do anything but it is up to us to react, not them.
Strangely enough, I'm not angry. I'm just very confused about what love is really supposed to be. I don't want someone saying they don't want to be in the same bed with me anymore because we in a dry spell.
:slams head on table: