In the clouds

[tor_tia]

ok so as of now...my life is good...im not with joe anymore...now im with nate...yea i know...lots of people are mad at me...but i talked to some of them and they seem to be better...i even talked to joe...yea we talked about it and he feels better...so another thing that is going on in my life is nate...yea you know that i go out with him now ^_^

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Re: I dont know u.. but yea.. just asking....

[anonymous]

Ok.. well, some of what u've expresed is understandable... and just to say, and see if this clicks in ur brain, but, that "force field" of protecting urself... u ever think that that was ur brain or heart telling u that u may have made the wrong decision about something? I might think that u felt that way b/c inside u knew u shouldnt have gone thru with what u did.. and now that u have, look at whats happened, u hurt someone dearly. U went into a relationship not feeling the appropriate way about it, as u have mentioned urself. I guess I could only say next: think twice about things u do.. and say for that matter. I only decided to post based on the readings in here. If u hadnt talked abuot how gushy u felt and "content" that 5 dudes thru out the day were after u, then i wouldnt have said that. U have a bf, those boys shouldnt matter. Listen b4 u think and think b4 u do... Listen to what exactly ur heart might be saying, then think about those feelings in terms, not based on just urself, but others also... then when u believe u may fully understand ur feelings and why u feel them, then do whatever it is... Joe is a friend of mine and he does not know its me who is posting. Joe has confided a few times in me about ur guyses relationship, but I decided to take it from the both of u, b/c it takes 2 to tango... and since I dont know u, and u all post ur whole lives basically in these LJ's, then I just went ahead and read...So as far as the both of u have confessed, I do know most of the story. I'm not mad at u, I dont know u, but I am disappointed that u had hurt a friend of mine, due to carelessness. Not that it was intentional, but I hope u understand that u were careless with his heart, and were quite selfish in ur actions, in both relationships.
Please take something positive from this post and from this situation...nothing negative. My only means were to help u understand and maybe learn.