Me and the guy I like were supposed to hang out tonight. He went to our mutual friend's wedding and was going to skip the reception to hang out with me (And I was going to cook for him.) his best female friend (she has a crush on him as well, he turned her down) other than me also went to this wedding and told him that she was ~disappointed~ that he wasn't coming to the reception because the mutual friends only get married once and he can hang out with me any time. So he asked me if it was ok if he went for an hour, and since I don't want to seem like a bitch, I said it was fine. It is now 3 hours later. (Mostly I'm just tired of feeling like I'm competing with this girl for his attention.. Like she will message him on msn while I'm hanging out with him ~just to get his attention~)
I kinda want to say something to him about it bothering me but I have no right since we're not actually dating (it's a complicated story, everyone assumes that we're dating because IT'S THAT OBVIOUS) and it's just very frustrating. That and the fact that he complained about how he didn't want to go to the reception and I'm like.. so don't go then. Because, you know.. If you didn't want to go THAT much, you wouldn't. (He's not very good friends with the people who got married)
girl if you want to be with this guy, you better tell him to put a ring on it. lol jk, but you should make it official. in my experience, being together, but "not really" always ends up in you or him doing something that isn't appropriate in a real relationship, but is okay in the situation because you're "not together". you should be able to say that you're disappointed that he didn't come home, but you can't because you're "not together". BULLSHIT
I kinda want to say something to him about it bothering me but I have no right since we're not actually dating (it's a complicated story, everyone assumes that we're dating because IT'S THAT OBVIOUS) and it's just very frustrating. That and the fact that he complained about how he didn't want to go to the reception and I'm like.. so don't go then. Because, you know.. If you didn't want to go THAT much, you wouldn't. (He's not very good friends with the people who got married)
tl;dr I just needed to ~vent~
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