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grr

Jun 15, 2002 00:14

do people really thrive on wether people they never so nor talk to show up to see them. we said, we'd go yes. but we had more important things to take care of, i've got my priorities straight and anyone else that didn't go, i'm sure had a good reason for not going. there's just some things you have to sacrifice, you can't like kill your self or ( Read more... )

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alithea June 18 2002, 20:32:10 UTC

fuck you jimmy.

you have no idea how much what you said hurt
you have no fucking idea.

i dont give a damn if im one of your priorities
but wanting somebody to be there on an important day
and being sad when they dont show up
twice
is not being selfish.

im moving away
and i wanted a chance to see my friends
[which, id like to remind you, i dont consider you one]
before i leave.

so once again, fuck you.

topfivebreakups June 19 2002, 12:49:50 UTC

being sad about something is one thing.
but making them feel bad about it? that's a whole different situation.
i don't care if you, or ever did consider me a friend. the way i see it... you never treated me like a friend except when we first met and when i first met zach and stuff.
im sorry you were sad. and everyone that didn't go im sure felt bad and was sorry. but for you to continue the guilt... is wrong.

Re: alithea June 19 2002, 13:53:02 UTC

how in the world did i guilt -anybody-?!

topfivebreakups June 19 2002, 15:35:04 UTC

well you tried to make norah feel pretty bad.
and oh read this post.
http://www.livejournal.com/talkread.bml?journal=softly&itemid=326119

Re: alithea June 19 2002, 17:39:42 UTC

the hell are you talking about? i didnt try and make norah feel bad.

and that post said nothing that shows that im selfish or that i tried to make anybody feel bad.

topfivebreakups June 20 2002, 18:47:18 UTC

there isnt even any point in arguing this with you anymore, you obviously are incapable of seeing somebody elses opinion of you and how you act. if you really wanted to be a better person you would look at your faults too, you are not perfect ( ... )

Re: alithea June 21 2002, 17:18:15 UTC

the thing is
i never INTENDED anybody to feel guilty.
i dont -want- people to feel guilty about this.
and i had every right to "complain" even though i wasnt even complaining. i was talking about how i was hurt. and if somebody feels guilty because im hurt, even though im not blaming them for anything, they cant get mad at me for emotions they feel. thats just fucked up.

Re: topfivebreakups June 21 2002, 20:51:06 UTC

~~~~~ENDS~~~~~~

Re: alithea June 21 2002, 22:53:11 UTC

dont be a dick and it wont happen again : D

maybe im a little late for this.... geekishgirl June 26 2002, 01:33:14 UTC

and it might not really concern me ....
but,
miss alithea is one of my best friends and youu said soome pretty nieve, close minded and fucked up things to her. some timmes i wish youu would pull youur head out of your ass aand try and understand where someone is coming from. and i -really- hope you didnt get a new lj just because of this situation, cus that wouuld be reeally immature, and youu -really- cant afford to be immature considering the very serious things that are about to enter your life. just really, try not to act likee an asshole and maybe you could talk to the person youre upset with. making blows like thatt online are not kosherr at all.

p.s. that link to alitheas post wasnt relavant to any of this at all. and the norah situation is something you probably dont know anything about. grow up and try to understand people.

Re: maybe im a little late for this.... topfivebreakups June 26 2002, 22:27:00 UTC

kayla... ya just butted in where you didn't belong you know... this has beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen over. i don't see why you are starting stuff with me. i didn't do anyting to you. AND i didnt switch journals because of that... i switched because i got a new code and i was sick of my old name. sooooooooooo pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase calm down. i still wanna be your friend. so if you have to "take sides" then do it, but i don't think it's so wise.

Re: maybe im a little late for this.... geekishgirl June 27 2002, 00:49:06 UTC

whatever. i got my two cents in there... i feel better.

Re: maybe im a little late for this.... topfivebreakups June 27 2002, 17:22:39 UTC

so do you want to be friends with me or not?

i understand that you were upset about that.

but i am ALSO your friend. maybe not as close, but that shouldn't matter. should it?

i'm still willing to be friends with you.

it's up to you to decide.

lilcricketnoise June 26 2002, 23:02:41 UTC

you know what kayla? she said some pretty mean and fucked up things to him, not all of which are recorded online like this in a place where others can read.

jimmy has a right to be upset/offended/annoyed with what she said, its his journal he can post what he wants, and in turn alithea has a right to feel the way she wants and post what she wants, but its not anybodys right to tell others how to feel.

you can of course take one side in this (even though its not your fight or your situation)without hearing both sides, but maybe you should try to understand where he is coming from, because he is not alone in his opinion.

alithea is your friend and you have a right to defend her, just as jimmy is not only my friend or my boyfriend but somebody i want to spend my entire life with, and therefore i will stand by him, but i dont want to loose or jeopordise our friendship, but i think you are doing exactly what you accused him of and saying some very closeminded things, because you arnt trying to see things from his point of view.

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