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I have a not so anonymous poster who thinks I am a big selfish and irresponsible bitch for having a baby at 26 years old in a loving committed relationship in which said baby was a decision we both agreed on when the time came to talk about it.
"Anonymous", I have never met someone so dense. If you want to know how Ryan feels ask him and stop assuming. Just because something is an inconvenience doesn't make it a bad thing. Should everything be as easy and convenient as possible? Does life work that way? No it doesn't and any reasonable person knows this. If you supported Ryan in any way you would be there for him to talk to no matter what decisions or goings on are occurring in his life. Support does not include: 1. assumption, 2. degradation of the person he loves (me), 3. Harassment, which is what you have been doing to me. You would also at leass be open to talking about this with him, which you have not been able to do. Let's remind ourselves that I didn't speak a word to you but to tell Christina I don't want to hear her comments. This does not facilitate: 1. name calling, 2. bringing up stuff form the past that was settled between two people that do not include yourself and 3. more assumption, which is what you have been doing regarding your brother and I throughout this. Really I thought you were done reading my blog?
I just want this kid to have a fun Uncle but you have not even mentioned the baby. Even if you do not agree with her presence now you should still be there for her after she is born. I would be able to look past this and make sure she can have fun with Uncle Jason but I am wondering if you can. It's up to you. You should at least talk to Ryan and fix this with him.
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In other news, I blog more on my Myspace. I hardly even use this anymore. Anonymous commenting has been disabled.
"Anonymous", I have never met someone so dense. If you want to know how Ryan feels ask him and stop assuming. Just because something is an inconvenience doesn't make it a bad thing. Should everything be as easy and convenient as possible? Does life work that way? No it doesn't and any reasonable person knows this. If you supported Ryan in any way you would be there for him to talk to no matter what decisions or goings on are occurring in his life. Support does not include: 1. assumption, 2. degradation of the person he loves (me), 3. Harassment, which is what you have been doing to me. You would also at leass be open to talking about this with him, which you have not been able to do. Let's remind ourselves that I didn't speak a word to you but to tell Christina I don't want to hear her comments. This does not facilitate: 1. name calling, 2. bringing up stuff form the past that was settled between two people that do not include yourself and 3. more assumption, which is what you have been doing regarding your brother and I throughout this. Really I thought you were done reading my blog?
I just want this kid to have a fun Uncle but you have not even mentioned the baby. Even if you do not agree with her presence now you should still be there for her after she is born. I would be able to look past this and make sure she can have fun with Uncle Jason but I am wondering if you can. It's up to you. You should at least talk to Ryan and fix this with him.
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In other news, I blog more on my Myspace. I hardly even use this anymore. Anonymous commenting has been disabled.