Follow up to earlier post - help me keep my man hard!
So, I'm technically incompetent and don't know how to do a link to my previous post, but it was about my new FWB and how to get him super turned on and please him as a man etc.
I got some great suggestions about sticking a finger up his butt, but I was too much of a lady and asked him beforehand and I got a big fat 'No' (he has diverticulitis and so I think this is just an area that is too close to medical for him).
Anyway, gonna get right into it. I am really, really, really into him. He is cool, funny, plays music and sings and is the best to hang out with. He even took me to meet his mum yesterday (lol). He is great in the sack - gives me the absolutely best oral sex I have ever experienced in my life - he must have some kind of tongue magic going on.
Apparently, I give him pretty darm good BJs as well as he has commented on how much he thinks I have been practising (lol); I realised I needed to slow things down a touch and do a lot more kissing and licking beforehand - and, he seems to love a kind fo 'deep-throat - clicking' kind of thing if that makes any sense.
So, seeing as we are on a sex-question roll, I would be very honoured if you could give me some more ideas...
... if I am to be brutally honest, I can get him pretty darn hard with my mouth and hands, but he struggles to keep hard inside of me (I have a tight pussy from many years of non-use - haha!! - plus a c section for my child), so I need some more help on how to help keep him hard so he can come inside of me. We have managed it a couple of times, but we are struggling a little with angles and the like. I want to try a cock ring as I think he will like it and it will help, but the only one I have is some kind of soft jelly thing from Ann Summers.
I need your expert opinions as, despite the decades I have been on this earth, I am feeling like a newbie (which is exciting in itself).
Oh, and, do ya think I should get a doc to stick their fingers up my hoo-ha to check it's not too tight or something has gone 'loose' - I am only 38 but it seems as if my pussy it tigher than it ever has been (maybe it's because he is a grower and not a shower - in a BIG way - I know for sure I am literally dripping wet once he has kissed me, sung to me and run his hands over my body...)
LOL - can you tell I am having a lot of good timez?!?
I got some great suggestions about sticking a finger up his butt, but I was too much of a lady and asked him beforehand and I got a big fat 'No' (he has diverticulitis and so I think this is just an area that is too close to medical for him).
Anyway, gonna get right into it. I am really, really, really into him. He is cool, funny, plays music and sings and is the best to hang out with. He even took me to meet his mum yesterday (lol). He is great in the sack - gives me the absolutely best oral sex I have ever experienced in my life - he must have some kind of tongue magic going on.
Apparently, I give him pretty darm good BJs as well as he has commented on how much he thinks I have been practising (lol); I realised I needed to slow things down a touch and do a lot more kissing and licking beforehand - and, he seems to love a kind fo 'deep-throat - clicking' kind of thing if that makes any sense.
So, seeing as we are on a sex-question roll, I would be very honoured if you could give me some more ideas...
... if I am to be brutally honest, I can get him pretty darn hard with my mouth and hands, but he struggles to keep hard inside of me (I have a tight pussy from many years of non-use - haha!! - plus a c section for my child), so I need some more help on how to help keep him hard so he can come inside of me. We have managed it a couple of times, but we are struggling a little with angles and the like. I want to try a cock ring as I think he will like it and it will help, but the only one I have is some kind of soft jelly thing from Ann Summers.
I need your expert opinions as, despite the decades I have been on this earth, I am feeling like a newbie (which is exciting in itself).
Oh, and, do ya think I should get a doc to stick their fingers up my hoo-ha to check it's not too tight or something has gone 'loose' - I am only 38 but it seems as if my pussy it tigher than it ever has been (maybe it's because he is a grower and not a shower - in a BIG way - I know for sure I am literally dripping wet once he has kissed me, sung to me and run his hands over my body...)
LOL - can you tell I am having a lot of good timez?!?