"Sex appeal is 50% what you've got and 50% what people think you've got"-sophia loren
Ok, so im reading this book called " Why Men Love Bitches" and it is fabulous. This entry is for ma ladies...i highly suggust you read this book:
Heres a tid bit:
" Attraction principle #1
Anything a person chases in life runs away.
Especially when it comes to dealing with a men. With on caveat. If you chase him in a black nightie, first he'll have sex with you...and then he'll run.
Why does a man run from a situation like this one? He runs because the womans behavior doesnt suggest that she places a high value on herself. The relationship is new, and the bond between then is relatively shallow. Yet she's already dealt him beat her best card.
The fact that she is willing to overcompensate to a virtual stranger immediately suggest one of two things. He'll either assume she is desperate, or he'll assume she is willing to sleep with all men right away. or BOTH. What gets lost is his appreciation for her extra effort. Once a man begins to lose respect for a woman because she is willing to subtly devalue herself, he will also lose the desire to get closer to her. Nightie or no nightie.
A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone. This is why the woman he really falls in love with doesnt serve a four-course meal. And you wont see her breaking out the fancy china, either. She'll start out cooking him a one-course meal. ( Popcorn.) No fancy doilies. A tupperwave bowl does the trick. She simply asks her guest " Hey, do you want the bag or the bowl?" Six months later, the same woman throws together a meal and puts down a hot plate infront of him. And what does he say to himself? "Man! I'm special!"
It doesnt matter if its pasta with Ragu topped by a meatball you picked up at the corner feli. He'll say, " This is the best pasta I have ever had in my life!"
Now he feels like a king. And the only difference is the amount of time and effort he had to invest, first. He didnt get it all right up front and he appreciated it more."
End of segment one. I already love this book. If your a lady, read it. fo real. read it.
Heres a tid bit:
" Attraction principle #1
Anything a person chases in life runs away.
Especially when it comes to dealing with a men. With on caveat. If you chase him in a black nightie, first he'll have sex with you...and then he'll run.
Why does a man run from a situation like this one? He runs because the womans behavior doesnt suggest that she places a high value on herself. The relationship is new, and the bond between then is relatively shallow. Yet she's already dealt him beat her best card.
The fact that she is willing to overcompensate to a virtual stranger immediately suggest one of two things. He'll either assume she is desperate, or he'll assume she is willing to sleep with all men right away. or BOTH. What gets lost is his appreciation for her extra effort. Once a man begins to lose respect for a woman because she is willing to subtly devalue herself, he will also lose the desire to get closer to her. Nightie or no nightie.
A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won't kill herself to impress anyone. This is why the woman he really falls in love with doesnt serve a four-course meal. And you wont see her breaking out the fancy china, either. She'll start out cooking him a one-course meal. ( Popcorn.) No fancy doilies. A tupperwave bowl does the trick. She simply asks her guest " Hey, do you want the bag or the bowl?" Six months later, the same woman throws together a meal and puts down a hot plate infront of him. And what does he say to himself? "Man! I'm special!"
It doesnt matter if its pasta with Ragu topped by a meatball you picked up at the corner feli. He'll say, " This is the best pasta I have ever had in my life!"
Now he feels like a king. And the only difference is the amount of time and effort he had to invest, first. He didnt get it all right up front and he appreciated it more."
End of segment one. I already love this book. If your a lady, read it. fo real. read it.