Kink Meme :3
Ok, I had my coffee so I'm just ready to finally resume the next pages of Verflucht for online publication.
As much as I hate to draw the fucking piano and how much I hate drawing the fucking piano during the smexy scenes, I realized that I can't procrastinate further. --Rejoice, next update will have 2 pages :3
This said, I finally decided to take this kink meme, freshly grabbed from josshouse. I seriously believe that everyone should do this XD
- Kinks highlighted in bold
- Bold AND italic for emphasis
- Boner kills slashed out
- If neutral/could go either way, leave unformatted.
My own comments look like this :3
• Abuse (sexual, emotional, and/or violent childhood abuse; past abusive relationships; character A's abuse drives character B into arms of character C; the wounded child as an adult archetype) Deal lord, NO.
• Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)
• Adrenaline and crises (pre-, mid-, or post-crisis sex; speed-freaks or adrenaline junkies; near-death experiences; the shadow of impending death--hours, minutes, or moments; see also Situational engineering) I actually wrote an Archer/Kimbly fanfiction on the theme, but it was just an experiment--
• Alpha males (alpha/beta male pairings; alpha/alpha pairings; het alpha males)
• Amnesia
• Anal sex (face to face, from behind, bottom riding top; standing; bent over desk; gay or straight; girl-on-boy with strap-on; girl-on-girl with strap-on) Ok, not emboldened just because that's not really a kink-- It's just OBVIOUS STUFF when dealing with YAOI, isn't it XD ?
• Angst (see Emotional themes)
• Animal themes or fetishization (physical transformation, e.g., animagi or werewolves; animalistic features; hirsutism as a fetish; tentacle sex; quasi animal forms such as centaurs, merfolk, intelligent dragons; pets, wild or domesticated; familiars; men showing affection toward animals, e.g., holding kittens, or nuzzling their horses; see also Otherness) Nekomimi? Pretty nagas? Merboys, anyone ;o; ..?
• Anti-heroes (sympathetic villains; villains with principles; noble demons; enemies who keep their word) I like some kind of morally troubled character, but I wouldn't call him an anti-hero... More an outcast or such? Anyway, I wouldn't consider it a kink of mine--
• Aphrodisiacs (see Intoxication and altered states) They make things lots easier for us people who don't wanna deal with angsty situations XD
• Ass-play and/or fetishization (ass lifted in the air for penetration; emphasized by harness or blue jeans; ass slapping; spreading cheeks; rimming)
• AUs (alternate characterizations and situations; sex between alternates of one character or between different characters; alternates as catalysts for realization of desire; role reversal; darker mirror universe characters; mistaken identity)
• Bad boys (punks, rebels; see also Rogues) Not very fond of the type, but still interesting if used with intelligence...
• Bad girls (dirty girls; naughty schoolgirls; femme fatales)
• Bar and club scenes (dancing, cruising, etc)
• Barebacking
• Baths and water (tubs or jacuzzis; hot springs; bath houses or steam rooms; the ocean; swimming pools; see also Washing; Shower sex) [because in real life? water is a fucking horrible lubricant. instant mood-killer.]
• BDSM I like the "toy" aspect of it, and some harnesses are fun to draw, but usually it doesn't amuses me.
• Begging or offering (begging or pleading for mercy, for sexual release, to be taken; a character offering himself; neediness)
• Beloved enemies It may be intriguing, but I usually pretty much dislike it. As usual, it depends. I loved it in Sawamura/Katsuya (Kichiku Megane) but I hated it in L/Light (Death Note) >_>
• Big guy/little guy (also seme/uke) It's very hot in shota stuff, and I'm recently converted to it thanks to imlikat's Sado/Ishida (Bleach) arts XD
• Biological imperative (pon farr or mating drive; being in heat) LOL, that's how I resolve all my stories, apparently XDD
• Biting (marking, nipping, chewing)
• Blindness (see Voyeurism and vision themes)
• Blow-jobs (oral sex, fellatio)
• Body fetishes not listed elsewhere (ears, muscular arms, breasts, bald heads, collarbones, cheekbones, bare feet or chest, etc; fatness, plumpness, softness; skin, e.g., weathered, tanned, soft) COLLARBONES ARE UNDERRATED ;___;
• Body-painting or inkbrushing on someone's skin Sai, anyone?
• Bondage The comment about SM applies here too, but bondage is infinitely more fun to draw!!
• Breath (as a caress; hitching or ragged; indrawn breath or gasps; sighs)
• Canon (canon elements/canonicity heightens characterization or scenario) Always a plus
• Catalysts (e.g., character A shows interest in character B, which makes character C realize how hot B is; or other catalytic events bringing about such an epiphany) Very interesting dynamic!! Expecially when it ends C/B XD
• Charisma (see Powers of attraction) ♥
• Coming out of the closet (see also Gayness; Orientation issues; Witnesses) It's interesting for the character development, but considering the angsty potential I prefer to avoid headaches...
• Coming without being touched 'Cause seme can do it!
• Confessions (revelation of love/desire; of other secrets; truth or dare games. deathbed confessions; revealing truths when feverish) It's like the "Coming Out" bit, but somehow more entertaining
• Courting and dating (courtship rituals; dating; blind dates; personal ads; traditional gestures such as flowers and chocolates; unusual gestures designed to win someone's attention; showing off or displaying prowess; rivals seeking a character's favor; see also Seduction) Sorry, but I like it ;__; Expecially in fun situations, when the seme tries to treat the uke like a girl, making the uke all "Don't compare me to a woman Dx !!" x'D
• Crossovers (characters thrust into other universes; canon universes merged; sex between characters played by same actor) Fun, but not a kink
• Crush or unrequited love THE FUEL OF ROMANCE
• Crying, sobbing (erotic and non-erotic)
• Cuddling (see Touch)
• Death (fatal illnesses; heroic death; character death in general; survivor guilt and grief; ghosts and haunting; vampires; Thanatos as the personification of death; Thanatos as the death wish; death orgasms; gothic aesthetics; immortality or aging as it relates to death; reincarnation)
• Discomfort during sex (rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure; cold stone versus hot flesh; position is uncomfortable at first but then becomes perfect; penetration is painful, then pleasurable) Gives a nice touch of realism to the relationship and I use it too, but it's more for realism's sake for a personal preference. Physical pain is a taboo for me XD
• Disorders (phobias; neuroses; obsessive-compulsive disorder; see also Insanity; Emotional themes)
• Emotional themes, emo-kink (angst; wallows; darkfic; emotional damage; psychological trauma; tragic pasts; broken characters; guilt and shame; mental instability; sadness and grief; abandonment or fear of same; characters who can't go home again; fear in general; nightmares; loneliness; broken-heartedness; failure; insecurity; self-hatred; self-mutilation such as secret cutting; suicide; see also Insanity)
• Endearments (see Names)
• Enemies working together Similar to "Beloved Enemies" but not really, 'cause it implies a positive, active confrontation. Loved it in Midou/Katsuya (Kichiku Megane) ♥
• Fake rake (a man falsely rumored to be promiscuous, who isn't; romance novel term)
• Finger-fucking (as preparation, foreplay, accompaniment, or main act)
• Fish out of water characters/scenarios
• Flirting (conscious or unconscious; with glances or touches; banter)
• Foreplay (I'm such a woman, LOL XD)
• Friction or frottage (naked or clothed; masturbatory or with partner; cocks rubbing together; tribadism; intercrural sex; someone rubbing off on sheets while giving head or being fucked; itchiness and scratching; chafing clothes; friction while on horseback or riding a motorcycle; accidental contact) This is really hot, and a good alternative to proper smexing when dealing with underage boys ;3; I drew a simil-shota Haruna/Abe like that!
• Friendship and affection (gestures of friendship; epic friendships a la Gilgamesh/Enkidu or Alexander/Hephaistion; friendship as pre-slash)
• Friendship sex or buddy-sex (fuck buddies) Oh, c'mon... It's just so handy >3> !!
• Gayness (self-identification as gay; gay pride; queer culture; homophobia; see also Orientation issues)
• Geeks and nebbishes (Peter Parker or Clark Kent characters; computer geeks; lab rats; nerds; intellectuals; personal secretaries; beta males; sidekicks; men in glasses; oddballs and eccentrics) --But I liked basso's series about Italian politicians, LOL XD
• Gentleness (tenderness; kindness; concern; gentle natures; characters who display sensitivity to fearful children, animals, the weak, etc; gentle responses at unexpected moments) Well, if I have to choose between "Abuse" and "Gentleness", LOL--
• Happiness (startled joy; passionate gratitude; ecstasy; comfort; happy endings)
• Healing or comfort sex (post-rape or abuse; affirming life in the midst of death; captives turning to one another for comfort; one character soothing another who is deeply upset or fearful)
• Heat (hot lazy summer days; steamrooms; sweat-slick skin; tempers rising with the heat; urgent fucking a la Body Heat)
• Heroic gestures (nobility; self-sacrifice; risking self to save someone's life; Gift of the Magi scenarios; taking the partner's place for torture; trading sexual favors to guards to procure food or medicine for partner; heroic deaths)
• Hot spots (a special spot that make someone crazy when stimulated, such as the vampire spot on the neck, the backs of the knees, the inner arms, navel, or earlobes) Fun things!
• Humor (funny banter, screwball comedy, etc)
• Humor as a mask (characters who hide pain behind humor) Oooh, subtleness is sexy--
• Hurt/comfort (emotional and/or physical, including torture of all kinds and degrees, and any form of caretaking)
• Insanity (involuntary or false committal; characters appearing insane when their beliefs or fears are real; sedation and restraints; asylums; dementia; therapy)
• Intelligence (quick wit; street smarts; Machiavellian cleverness; Sherlock Holmesian deductive powers; geniuses; experts; criminal masterminds; see also Special powers and skills; Geeks and nebbishes)
• Intimacy
• Intoxication and altered states (aphrodisiacs; drugs or alcohol; sex pollen/spores; substances or devices that create arousal, affection, or dependency; speaking or showing the truth while intoxicated; visionary states) Saying yes to "Aphrodisiacs" is not going to make me say yes to drug usage or alcohol abuse D:
• Jewelry (decorative and/or symbolic; wedding rings; earrings; slave bracelets; piercings)
• Kissing, necking
• Love and passion (falling in love; love at first sight; one true love; eternal love; unconditional love; star-crossed lovers; tempestuous passions)
• Love/hate relationship
• Massage
• Messiness and markers of arousal (mussed hair; flushed cheeks; swollen mouth; displaying bite marks or hickeys; clothes in disarray; sprawling; come-spattered skin) Of course a seme as to mark his uke and viceversa
• Mindfuck, mindgames
• Mirrors I never used that, but hell, it may be interesting!!
• Multiple orgasms (See also Sexual appetite or excess)
• Music (singing; playing an instrument such as guitar or piano; composers; rock stars or bands; groupies; song lyrics)
• Neck fetishization (nape of the neck, throat, hickeys, etc)
• Noise (screaming or yelling during sex; whimpering or sobbing; purring, growling; slurping or moaning enthusiastically during blow-jobs)
• Non-consensual or semi-consensual sex (sexual extortion; bribery; reluctant or ambivalent partner; bondage and struggle; no means yes; other consent issues) Semi-consensual could be interesting to play with...
• Oral fixation or fetishization (lips, tongue, or whole mouth; french-kissing; licking; oral displays using food or beer bottles; smoking cigarettes, cigars, or pipes; biting or chewing one's lip(s)) Sai? XD
• Orgasm denial LOL, no, why XD
• Orientation issues (confusion; discovery and coming out; self-hatred; two-beer queers; homosexual panic)
• Patience (e.g., showing patience toward a character who is brain-damaged or who is struggling bitterly with being recently crippled; or to a character prone to irrational fear or outbursts; patience with children; see also Gentleness)
• Penance or reform (bad boy turns good; evil seeks to change; performing acts of atonement or restitution; self-mortification; martyrdom; selflessness; apologies or apology sex)
• Physical responses (face or ears burning; little hairs lifting on the scalp or neck; gut tightening; pulse quickening or missing a beat; lashes fluttering or lids growing heavy; mouth coming open; dick or pussy throbbing)
• Pillow biting
• Possessiveness or jealousy
• Prostate pleasure Everytime a guy tells me that I should try anal sex I'd like to stick something in their urethra.
• Prostitutes (call-girls and hookers; rent boys and hustlers; escorts; paying one's way through school with sideline hooking; juvenile past on the streets) I-- I noticed that I really love the stories about them, expecially when they perform happy endings-- But not necessarily, LOL
• Protectiveness (physically or verbally defending someone; caretaking in general; big guy/little guy pairings; bodyguard scenarios; mysterious benefactors or protectors) t's what a good seme is supposed to do-- EVEN SINCE CHILDHOOD!
• Public displays of affection, PDAs This may be cute, expecially in Japanese settings, where everyone is always so private and composed in public-- But I usually dislike it IRL XD
• Rescue (danger and rescue in general, e.g., abductions)
• Restraint (pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement)
• Rimming or tongue-fucking
• Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex; fighting/wrestling; jackhammer fucking; sex with no or little lube)
• Sadism or sadomasochism
• Scent as an erotic element
• School themes and fetishization (boarding schools; dojos; scholarly gowns and uniforms; sailor fuku; prep school chic; teacher/student pairings; donnish or professorial characters; prefects/head boys; caning; schoolboy hijinks or sexual discovery; military academies; tutoring and teaching in general; see also Conditioning) Are you seriously asking THIS to me..?
• Secret admirers
• Secret identity (superheroes, slayers, immortals, mutants, etc; disguised gender; spies)
• Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing; see also Courting)
• Sensory overload or enhancement
• Sex in vehicles (cars, taxis, limos; planes or space shuttles; motorcycles; carnival rides)
• Sex with clothes still on or partly on Oh, yeah *_*
• Sexual frustration (orgasm denial or being unable to come; blue balls; enforced abstinence; self-denial; inability of two people to touch)
• Sexual movements (back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers) ♥
• Sharing (sharing a beer bottle, joint, or bucket of popcorn; loaning someone clothes; a character letting someone stay in their home; sharing confidences; sharing a woman)
• Shower sex It should be quite uncomfortable, actually, but who cares abou IRL issues XD
• Sixty-nine (69) It's hot to draw, and solves a lot of technical difficulties, like mutual preparation for smex :D
• Sleep and bedding themes (sharing a bed by necessity, such as in a hotel with only one room left; sharing a sleeping bag for warmth; sex while drowsy or sleeping; sex as a sleep aid; autonomic arousal from proximity; morning wake-up sex, falling asleep against someone's shoulder; watching someone sleep; dreams; nightmares; dream lovers, e.g., succubi; exotic or romantic beds, e.g., canopied; furs as bedding; silk sheets) Besides the opportunity for hot, comfy smex, it's just an adorable situation ^_^
• Slow and/or prolonged sex
• Smiles or laughing
• Snark
• Spooning
• Striptease
• Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate; aphasia; talking fast; miscommunication and misunderstandings in general; lack of a shared language; see also Silence; Clams; Voice fetishization)
• Taste as an erotic element
• Teasing or tickling
• Tentacle sex If there's something that Japanese porn taught me, it's hat tentacles are the best lovers.
• Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)
• Topping from the bottom JUST YEAH, PLZ
• Touching (stroking and caressing; cuddling or nuzzling; huddling for warmth; hugging; holding hands in public; touching as UST; brief brushes of contact either deliberate or accidental; PDAs; thighs brushing under a table; comic physical entanglements; someone gripping a wounded character's hand)
• Tragic flaws
• Trapped or stranded together (on another world; on a desert island; in a cave-in; in a cabin during a snowstorm; in an elevator)
• Triangles (love triangles) Mhhhh. I like some dynamics, but I usually tend to avoid these
• Triangulation of desire (two men express their desire for each other through a female intermediary; sexual rivalry for a woman is actually homoerotic interest) I never used it, but I once read a hot Archer/fem!Al/Kimbly ffic like this by hidebehindaname and it was SUPER HOT.
• Undressing (undressing in front of someone for the first time; one character undressing another; fumbling clumsily to get undressed; stripteases) Entertaining, but not extremely kinky to me
• Urgency for sex (begging to suck cock; desperate to fuck; greedy bottom) I expecially love to see it in the uke!
• Voice fetishization (cracking or broken; husky, low, throaty; purring; accents; whispering close to someone's ear)
• Washing (washing one's partner, body or hair; bubble baths; shower scenes; slave service in bath; cleaning/cleansing someone who's been raped, degraded, or who is injured)
• Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)
• Writing (love letters or notes; secret admirers; e-mail and chat; wills; poetry; storytelling; tracing words or figures on skin, or writing, as with an inkbrush)
Wow, it took me longer than I expected ^_^; --I assume I'm a boring person orz
As much as I hate to draw the fucking piano and how much I hate drawing the fucking piano during the smexy scenes, I realized that I can't procrastinate further. --Rejoice, next update will have 2 pages :3
This said, I finally decided to take this kink meme, freshly grabbed from josshouse. I seriously believe that everyone should do this XD
- Kinks highlighted in bold
- Bold AND italic for emphasis
- Boner kills slashed out
- If neutral/could go either way, leave unformatted.
My own comments look like this :3
• Abuse (sexual, emotional, and/or violent childhood abuse; past abusive relationships; character A's abuse drives character B into arms of character C; the wounded child as an adult archetype) Deal lord, NO.
• Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)
• Adrenaline and crises (pre-, mid-, or post-crisis sex; speed-freaks or adrenaline junkies; near-death experiences; the shadow of impending death--hours, minutes, or moments; see also Situational engineering) I actually wrote an Archer/Kimbly fanfiction on the theme, but it was just an experiment--
• Alpha males (alpha/beta male pairings; alpha/alpha pairings; het alpha males)
• Amnesia
• Anal sex (face to face, from behind, bottom riding top; standing; bent over desk; gay or straight; girl-on-boy with strap-on; girl-on-girl with strap-on) Ok, not emboldened just because that's not really a kink-- It's just OBVIOUS STUFF when dealing with YAOI, isn't it XD ?
• Angst (see Emotional themes)
• Animal themes or fetishization (physical transformation, e.g., animagi or werewolves; animalistic features; hirsutism as a fetish; tentacle sex; quasi animal forms such as centaurs, merfolk, intelligent dragons; pets, wild or domesticated; familiars; men showing affection toward animals, e.g., holding kittens, or nuzzling their horses; see also Otherness) Nekomimi? Pretty nagas? Merboys, anyone ;o; ..?
• Anti-heroes (sympathetic villains; villains with principles; noble demons; enemies who keep their word) I like some kind of morally troubled character, but I wouldn't call him an anti-hero... More an outcast or such? Anyway, I wouldn't consider it a kink of mine--
• Aphrodisiacs (see Intoxication and altered states) They make things lots easier for us people who don't wanna deal with angsty situations XD
• Ass-play and/or fetishization (ass lifted in the air for penetration; emphasized by harness or blue jeans; ass slapping; spreading cheeks; rimming)
• AUs (alternate characterizations and situations; sex between alternates of one character or between different characters; alternates as catalysts for realization of desire; role reversal; darker mirror universe characters; mistaken identity)
• Bad boys (punks, rebels; see also Rogues) Not very fond of the type, but still interesting if used with intelligence...
• Bad girls (dirty girls; naughty schoolgirls; femme fatales)
• Bar and club scenes (dancing, cruising, etc)
• Barebacking
• Baths and water (tubs or jacuzzis; hot springs; bath houses or steam rooms; the ocean; swimming pools; see also Washing; Shower sex) [because in real life? water is a fucking horrible lubricant. instant mood-killer.]
• BDSM I like the "toy" aspect of it, and some harnesses are fun to draw, but usually it doesn't amuses me.
• Begging or offering (begging or pleading for mercy, for sexual release, to be taken; a character offering himself; neediness)
• Beloved enemies It may be intriguing, but I usually pretty much dislike it. As usual, it depends. I loved it in Sawamura/Katsuya (Kichiku Megane) but I hated it in L/Light (Death Note) >_>
• Big guy/little guy (also seme/uke) It's very hot in shota stuff, and I'm recently converted to it thanks to imlikat's Sado/Ishida (Bleach) arts XD
• Biological imperative (pon farr or mating drive; being in heat) LOL, that's how I resolve all my stories, apparently XDD
• Biting (marking, nipping, chewing)
• Blindness (see Voyeurism and vision themes)
• Blow-jobs (oral sex, fellatio)
• Body fetishes not listed elsewhere (ears, muscular arms, breasts, bald heads, collarbones, cheekbones, bare feet or chest, etc; fatness, plumpness, softness; skin, e.g., weathered, tanned, soft) COLLARBONES ARE UNDERRATED ;___;
• Body-painting or inkbrushing on someone's skin Sai, anyone?
• Bondage The comment about SM applies here too, but bondage is infinitely more fun to draw!!
• Breath (as a caress; hitching or ragged; indrawn breath or gasps; sighs)
• Canon (canon elements/canonicity heightens characterization or scenario) Always a plus
• Catalysts (e.g., character A shows interest in character B, which makes character C realize how hot B is; or other catalytic events bringing about such an epiphany) Very interesting dynamic!! Expecially when it ends C/B XD
• Charisma (see Powers of attraction) ♥
• Coming out of the closet (see also Gayness; Orientation issues; Witnesses) It's interesting for the character development, but considering the angsty potential I prefer to avoid headaches...
• Coming without being touched 'Cause seme can do it!
• Confessions (revelation of love/desire; of other secrets; truth or dare games. deathbed confessions; revealing truths when feverish) It's like the "Coming Out" bit, but somehow more entertaining
• Courting and dating (courtship rituals; dating; blind dates; personal ads; traditional gestures such as flowers and chocolates; unusual gestures designed to win someone's attention; showing off or displaying prowess; rivals seeking a character's favor; see also Seduction) Sorry, but I like it ;__; Expecially in fun situations, when the seme tries to treat the uke like a girl, making the uke all "Don't compare me to a woman Dx !!" x'D
• Crossovers (characters thrust into other universes; canon universes merged; sex between characters played by same actor) Fun, but not a kink
• Crush or unrequited love THE FUEL OF ROMANCE
• Crying, sobbing (erotic and non-erotic)
• Cuddling (see Touch)
• Death (fatal illnesses; heroic death; character death in general; survivor guilt and grief; ghosts and haunting; vampires; Thanatos as the personification of death; Thanatos as the death wish; death orgasms; gothic aesthetics; immortality or aging as it relates to death; reincarnation)
• Discomfort during sex (rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure; cold stone versus hot flesh; position is uncomfortable at first but then becomes perfect; penetration is painful, then pleasurable) Gives a nice touch of realism to the relationship and I use it too, but it's more for realism's sake for a personal preference. Physical pain is a taboo for me XD
• Disorders (phobias; neuroses; obsessive-compulsive disorder; see also Insanity; Emotional themes)
• Emotional themes, emo-kink (angst; wallows; darkfic; emotional damage; psychological trauma; tragic pasts; broken characters; guilt and shame; mental instability; sadness and grief; abandonment or fear of same; characters who can't go home again; fear in general; nightmares; loneliness; broken-heartedness; failure; insecurity; self-hatred; self-mutilation such as secret cutting; suicide; see also Insanity)
• Endearments (see Names)
• Enemies working together Similar to "Beloved Enemies" but not really, 'cause it implies a positive, active confrontation. Loved it in Midou/Katsuya (Kichiku Megane) ♥
• Fake rake (a man falsely rumored to be promiscuous, who isn't; romance novel term)
• Finger-fucking (as preparation, foreplay, accompaniment, or main act)
• Fish out of water characters/scenarios
• Flirting (conscious or unconscious; with glances or touches; banter)
• Foreplay (I'm such a woman, LOL XD)
• Friction or frottage (naked or clothed; masturbatory or with partner; cocks rubbing together; tribadism; intercrural sex; someone rubbing off on sheets while giving head or being fucked; itchiness and scratching; chafing clothes; friction while on horseback or riding a motorcycle; accidental contact) This is really hot, and a good alternative to proper smexing when dealing with underage boys ;3; I drew a simil-shota Haruna/Abe like that!
• Friendship and affection (gestures of friendship; epic friendships a la Gilgamesh/Enkidu or Alexander/Hephaistion; friendship as pre-slash)
• Friendship sex or buddy-sex (fuck buddies) Oh, c'mon... It's just so handy >3> !!
• Gayness (self-identification as gay; gay pride; queer culture; homophobia; see also Orientation issues)
• Geeks and nebbishes (Peter Parker or Clark Kent characters; computer geeks; lab rats; nerds; intellectuals; personal secretaries; beta males; sidekicks; men in glasses; oddballs and eccentrics) --But I liked basso's series about Italian politicians, LOL XD
• Gentleness (tenderness; kindness; concern; gentle natures; characters who display sensitivity to fearful children, animals, the weak, etc; gentle responses at unexpected moments) Well, if I have to choose between "Abuse" and "Gentleness", LOL--
• Happiness (startled joy; passionate gratitude; ecstasy; comfort; happy endings)
• Healing or comfort sex (post-rape or abuse; affirming life in the midst of death; captives turning to one another for comfort; one character soothing another who is deeply upset or fearful)
• Heat (hot lazy summer days; steamrooms; sweat-slick skin; tempers rising with the heat; urgent fucking a la Body Heat)
• Heroic gestures (nobility; self-sacrifice; risking self to save someone's life; Gift of the Magi scenarios; taking the partner's place for torture; trading sexual favors to guards to procure food or medicine for partner; heroic deaths)
• Hot spots (a special spot that make someone crazy when stimulated, such as the vampire spot on the neck, the backs of the knees, the inner arms, navel, or earlobes) Fun things!
• Humor (funny banter, screwball comedy, etc)
• Humor as a mask (characters who hide pain behind humor) Oooh, subtleness is sexy--
• Hurt/comfort (emotional and/or physical, including torture of all kinds and degrees, and any form of caretaking)
• Insanity (involuntary or false committal; characters appearing insane when their beliefs or fears are real; sedation and restraints; asylums; dementia; therapy)
• Intelligence (quick wit; street smarts; Machiavellian cleverness; Sherlock Holmesian deductive powers; geniuses; experts; criminal masterminds; see also Special powers and skills; Geeks and nebbishes)
• Intimacy
• Intoxication and altered states (aphrodisiacs; drugs or alcohol; sex pollen/spores; substances or devices that create arousal, affection, or dependency; speaking or showing the truth while intoxicated; visionary states) Saying yes to "Aphrodisiacs" is not going to make me say yes to drug usage or alcohol abuse D:
• Jewelry (decorative and/or symbolic; wedding rings; earrings; slave bracelets; piercings)
• Kissing, necking
• Love and passion (falling in love; love at first sight; one true love; eternal love; unconditional love; star-crossed lovers; tempestuous passions)
• Love/hate relationship
• Massage
• Messiness and markers of arousal (mussed hair; flushed cheeks; swollen mouth; displaying bite marks or hickeys; clothes in disarray; sprawling; come-spattered skin) Of course a seme as to mark his uke and viceversa
• Mindfuck, mindgames
• Mirrors I never used that, but hell, it may be interesting!!
• Multiple orgasms (See also Sexual appetite or excess)
• Music (singing; playing an instrument such as guitar or piano; composers; rock stars or bands; groupies; song lyrics)
• Neck fetishization (nape of the neck, throat, hickeys, etc)
• Noise (screaming or yelling during sex; whimpering or sobbing; purring, growling; slurping or moaning enthusiastically during blow-jobs)
• Non-consensual or semi-consensual sex (sexual extortion; bribery; reluctant or ambivalent partner; bondage and struggle; no means yes; other consent issues) Semi-consensual could be interesting to play with...
• Oral fixation or fetishization (lips, tongue, or whole mouth; french-kissing; licking; oral displays using food or beer bottles; smoking cigarettes, cigars, or pipes; biting or chewing one's lip(s)) Sai? XD
• Orgasm denial LOL, no, why XD
• Orientation issues (confusion; discovery and coming out; self-hatred; two-beer queers; homosexual panic)
• Patience (e.g., showing patience toward a character who is brain-damaged or who is struggling bitterly with being recently crippled; or to a character prone to irrational fear or outbursts; patience with children; see also Gentleness)
• Penance or reform (bad boy turns good; evil seeks to change; performing acts of atonement or restitution; self-mortification; martyrdom; selflessness; apologies or apology sex)
• Physical responses (face or ears burning; little hairs lifting on the scalp or neck; gut tightening; pulse quickening or missing a beat; lashes fluttering or lids growing heavy; mouth coming open; dick or pussy throbbing)
• Pillow biting
• Possessiveness or jealousy
• Prostate pleasure Everytime a guy tells me that I should try anal sex I'd like to stick something in their urethra.
• Prostitutes (call-girls and hookers; rent boys and hustlers; escorts; paying one's way through school with sideline hooking; juvenile past on the streets) I-- I noticed that I really love the stories about them, expecially when they perform happy endings-- But not necessarily, LOL
• Protectiveness (physically or verbally defending someone; caretaking in general; big guy/little guy pairings; bodyguard scenarios; mysterious benefactors or protectors) t's what a good seme is supposed to do-- EVEN SINCE CHILDHOOD!
• Public displays of affection, PDAs This may be cute, expecially in Japanese settings, where everyone is always so private and composed in public-- But I usually dislike it IRL XD
• Rescue (danger and rescue in general, e.g., abductions)
• Restraint (pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement)
• Rimming or tongue-fucking
• Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex; fighting/wrestling; jackhammer fucking; sex with no or little lube)
• Sadism or sadomasochism
• Scent as an erotic element
• School themes and fetishization (boarding schools; dojos; scholarly gowns and uniforms; sailor fuku; prep school chic; teacher/student pairings; donnish or professorial characters; prefects/head boys; caning; schoolboy hijinks or sexual discovery; military academies; tutoring and teaching in general; see also Conditioning) Are you seriously asking THIS to me..?
• Secret admirers
• Secret identity (superheroes, slayers, immortals, mutants, etc; disguised gender; spies)
• Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing; see also Courting)
• Sensory overload or enhancement
• Sex in vehicles (cars, taxis, limos; planes or space shuttles; motorcycles; carnival rides)
• Sex with clothes still on or partly on Oh, yeah *_*
• Sexual frustration (orgasm denial or being unable to come; blue balls; enforced abstinence; self-denial; inability of two people to touch)
• Sexual movements (back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers) ♥
• Sharing (sharing a beer bottle, joint, or bucket of popcorn; loaning someone clothes; a character letting someone stay in their home; sharing confidences; sharing a woman)
• Shower sex It should be quite uncomfortable, actually, but who cares abou IRL issues XD
• Sixty-nine (69) It's hot to draw, and solves a lot of technical difficulties, like mutual preparation for smex :D
• Sleep and bedding themes (sharing a bed by necessity, such as in a hotel with only one room left; sharing a sleeping bag for warmth; sex while drowsy or sleeping; sex as a sleep aid; autonomic arousal from proximity; morning wake-up sex, falling asleep against someone's shoulder; watching someone sleep; dreams; nightmares; dream lovers, e.g., succubi; exotic or romantic beds, e.g., canopied; furs as bedding; silk sheets) Besides the opportunity for hot, comfy smex, it's just an adorable situation ^_^
• Slow and/or prolonged sex
• Smiles or laughing
• Snark
• Spooning
• Striptease
• Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate; aphasia; talking fast; miscommunication and misunderstandings in general; lack of a shared language; see also Silence; Clams; Voice fetishization)
• Taste as an erotic element
• Teasing or tickling
• Tentacle sex If there's something that Japanese porn taught me, it's hat tentacles are the best lovers.
• Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)
• Topping from the bottom JUST YEAH, PLZ
• Touching (stroking and caressing; cuddling or nuzzling; huddling for warmth; hugging; holding hands in public; touching as UST; brief brushes of contact either deliberate or accidental; PDAs; thighs brushing under a table; comic physical entanglements; someone gripping a wounded character's hand)
• Tragic flaws
• Trapped or stranded together (on another world; on a desert island; in a cave-in; in a cabin during a snowstorm; in an elevator)
• Triangles (love triangles) Mhhhh. I like some dynamics, but I usually tend to avoid these
• Triangulation of desire (two men express their desire for each other through a female intermediary; sexual rivalry for a woman is actually homoerotic interest) I never used it, but I once read a hot Archer/fem!Al/Kimbly ffic like this by hidebehindaname and it was SUPER HOT.
• Undressing (undressing in front of someone for the first time; one character undressing another; fumbling clumsily to get undressed; stripteases) Entertaining, but not extremely kinky to me
• Urgency for sex (begging to suck cock; desperate to fuck; greedy bottom) I expecially love to see it in the uke!
• Voice fetishization (cracking or broken; husky, low, throaty; purring; accents; whispering close to someone's ear)
• Washing (washing one's partner, body or hair; bubble baths; shower scenes; slave service in bath; cleaning/cleansing someone who's been raped, degraded, or who is injured)
• Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)
• Writing (love letters or notes; secret admirers; e-mail and chat; wills; poetry; storytelling; tracing words or figures on skin, or writing, as with an inkbrush)
Wow, it took me longer than I expected ^_^; --I assume I'm a boring person orz