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let me start by apologizing for this entry if you are offended. i may come across as bitchy in this, but if you know me, you know i am a nice guy, so don't worry. i'm just getting some stuff out there.
id like to just to let out a little bit on what i might go as far as to call the downfall of humanity. not knowing exactly where to start on the topic, i will say this, the quality of people as a whole, whether it be for friendship, employment, or whatever has decreased. dont get me wrong, i do think there are good people out there in the world, and chances are, if you are reading this, you are allright in my book.(although, you never know)
perhaps it is just me, and i am to nieve, too trusting to realize it. the world is changing, times change, people change, it's understandable. look at the world now compared to 100 years ago. alot has changed. it just seems to me that nowadays good people are hard to come by. it also seems to me that everyone has multiple personalities. you can be friends with one person, and the same person can be somebody else at certain times, if that makes any sense at all. trust is a valuable comodity, but it seems very limited, if even possible. even within families you find betrayal, lies, harsh words, and uncertainty. i will admit that i may be selfish at times. but sometimes people take it to extremes. once again , maybe i am too nice, but i do like to consider others feelings when making decisions. i do care if i hurt somebody, i do care if someone ends up feeling horrible, even if i do not know them. i dont undertand how people can be so immune to others reactions and feelings. this may sound somewhat immature but i beleive it holds true. putting down someone else doesn't make you feel better. well , it might. but think about it, why? you try to knock them down to a level below your own. why? because you want to feel better than them? because you don't think you are? put your effort towards chaning yourself for the better instead of bringing down other people. people try to hard to look good. why? because if you dont, people wont accept you. sadly, people with more outter beauty get more oppurtunities than less physically attractive people. judging. i know i judge, its not to hurt anyone, but i do. i know i shouldnt. i feel bad sometimes. stop judging other people until you are perfect. and good luch being perfect, it will never happen. get over it.lies. why bother. i try my best to be a man of my word, and i feel bad if i can not follow thru. people throw promises around like parade candy these days. but like the candy, some of it just lies in the street only to get run over and walked on, even the good stuff. i'm sure everyone can agree on this. i hate being lied to. do not tell me one thing and do another. do not tell me you will be somwhere and then not show up. why bother going thru the lieing process. save your breath and save my time. perhaps this is why i beleive it impossible for me to fall in love. i look around the world today and dont see many people i could be with, if any. ever. anywhere. at any time. but i will be friends with virtually anyone. i find friendship more valuable anyways. next topic. kids. don't get me wrong, i love kids. but honestly, look around you. have you seen kids today? horrible kids not listening to their parents, if i evern did that as a kid, i would have been dead, same with most of the people i discuss that with. 11 year olds wearing makeup, drinking, having sex. what is that all about? it makes me concerned about the future of this world. if it even has one.
bottom line. be nice! life is too short to do anything but have fun. even a smile can brighten someone elses day, even a stranger. give people compliments, dont tear them apart. live without regrets, but live responsibly. live. don't keep things from me. if you feel something just tell me. it's ok/ whats the worst that could happen? i'll admit, my opinion of people can change like a baby's diaper, but if i get mad, i get over it. i forgive people in a heartbeat, i forget, i put it in the past. just dont take advantage of my system of i will eliminate you from my life. ouch, i know. but if you do me wrong that bad, you deserve to go.
it is rare when i come across a person that i dont like. even people i meet randomly and may never talk to again. although i do not expect the same, know that whoever you are, i will be here for you if you need me. don't hesitate to ask. dont ever feel nervous around me or be scared to ask or say something. remember that i'm rediculousy easy going.
thanks for giving me like 10 minutes of your life. now get out of here. if you are up to the challenge, do something nice for someone else today. maybe it will be a chain reaction and people won't be so self centerd all the time?
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o yea, and Happy New Year!
id like to just to let out a little bit on what i might go as far as to call the downfall of humanity. not knowing exactly where to start on the topic, i will say this, the quality of people as a whole, whether it be for friendship, employment, or whatever has decreased. dont get me wrong, i do think there are good people out there in the world, and chances are, if you are reading this, you are allright in my book.(although, you never know)
perhaps it is just me, and i am to nieve, too trusting to realize it. the world is changing, times change, people change, it's understandable. look at the world now compared to 100 years ago. alot has changed. it just seems to me that nowadays good people are hard to come by. it also seems to me that everyone has multiple personalities. you can be friends with one person, and the same person can be somebody else at certain times, if that makes any sense at all. trust is a valuable comodity, but it seems very limited, if even possible. even within families you find betrayal, lies, harsh words, and uncertainty. i will admit that i may be selfish at times. but sometimes people take it to extremes. once again , maybe i am too nice, but i do like to consider others feelings when making decisions. i do care if i hurt somebody, i do care if someone ends up feeling horrible, even if i do not know them. i dont undertand how people can be so immune to others reactions and feelings. this may sound somewhat immature but i beleive it holds true. putting down someone else doesn't make you feel better. well , it might. but think about it, why? you try to knock them down to a level below your own. why? because you want to feel better than them? because you don't think you are? put your effort towards chaning yourself for the better instead of bringing down other people. people try to hard to look good. why? because if you dont, people wont accept you. sadly, people with more outter beauty get more oppurtunities than less physically attractive people. judging. i know i judge, its not to hurt anyone, but i do. i know i shouldnt. i feel bad sometimes. stop judging other people until you are perfect. and good luch being perfect, it will never happen. get over it.lies. why bother. i try my best to be a man of my word, and i feel bad if i can not follow thru. people throw promises around like parade candy these days. but like the candy, some of it just lies in the street only to get run over and walked on, even the good stuff. i'm sure everyone can agree on this. i hate being lied to. do not tell me one thing and do another. do not tell me you will be somwhere and then not show up. why bother going thru the lieing process. save your breath and save my time. perhaps this is why i beleive it impossible for me to fall in love. i look around the world today and dont see many people i could be with, if any. ever. anywhere. at any time. but i will be friends with virtually anyone. i find friendship more valuable anyways. next topic. kids. don't get me wrong, i love kids. but honestly, look around you. have you seen kids today? horrible kids not listening to their parents, if i evern did that as a kid, i would have been dead, same with most of the people i discuss that with. 11 year olds wearing makeup, drinking, having sex. what is that all about? it makes me concerned about the future of this world. if it even has one.
bottom line. be nice! life is too short to do anything but have fun. even a smile can brighten someone elses day, even a stranger. give people compliments, dont tear them apart. live without regrets, but live responsibly. live. don't keep things from me. if you feel something just tell me. it's ok/ whats the worst that could happen? i'll admit, my opinion of people can change like a baby's diaper, but if i get mad, i get over it. i forgive people in a heartbeat, i forget, i put it in the past. just dont take advantage of my system of i will eliminate you from my life. ouch, i know. but if you do me wrong that bad, you deserve to go.
it is rare when i come across a person that i dont like. even people i meet randomly and may never talk to again. although i do not expect the same, know that whoever you are, i will be here for you if you need me. don't hesitate to ask. dont ever feel nervous around me or be scared to ask or say something. remember that i'm rediculousy easy going.
thanks for giving me like 10 minutes of your life. now get out of here. if you are up to the challenge, do something nice for someone else today. maybe it will be a chain reaction and people won't be so self centerd all the time?
end.
o yea, and Happy New Year!