Yeah, so you know how some couples set boundaries in their relationship so they don't go "too far" physically? Well Michael and I kinda did that, but the biggest thing is we are being led by the Holy Spirit
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SO...okay. Being led by the holy spirit is an excellent thing, and i don't doubt for one millisecond that you are. But lets break it down for the accountibility partner. These aren't really "amendments" so much as "Guidances by the holy spirit to the contrary of your rules" occasionally? I'm not worried about it or anything- I'll go with whatever you say, and i'll do it joyfully, because I know the both of you too well to think you'd take this lightly, or ignore what the Lord's tellng you- everyone makes mistakes, but hey- if you're listening, chances are, He's going to talk to you. I guess I just wanted to make sure that I actually AM taking care of the task you asked me to do as a friend. And I can't do that if things aren't laid out on the table. Not necessarily that you're hiding this- so much as that you hadn't necessarily defined in specific terms outwardly. And it's always important to reassess where you are in terms of this kind of situation- it gives you fresh perspective, and a clearer understanding of what your motivations should hand shouldn't be....and yeah, you get the idea. I know you aren't going to run off and do anything foolish, and I also know that previous experience has given you plenty of emotional and spiritual reasons NOT to push the boundaries. I'm just making sure you know where the boundaries are, and when it's absolutely alright to move past them.Because if you know...then for the most part, my job is very nearly made obsolete. Which yay for that! :) So there are my thoughts on the subject. Enjoy your weekend!
:) So there are my thoughts on the subject. Enjoy your weekend!
(*hugs you*)
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