ali...i worry about you and ashley so much. next time your mom attempts to kill herself or fights with ya'll or even threatens to kill herself...don't try to kick the door down or fight with her. she just wants that attention from you. dial 911 and let the police deal with her and then the ABUSE will be documented. and that is what it is baby, and it is not fair for you two to be living under that type of stress. how can you concentrate on your grades and mature mentally if you are going through the constant abuse from her? if she is going through some things that she can't deal with on her own, she needs some help and you need to see that she gets it. she might not make it next time. there are situations like that that end tragically every day, and i would hate to see that happen to you. obviously she wanted amanda to be there the other night, because when she got there, things calmed down. maybe amanda needs to let her know that she is there for her and she can call her whenever things get a little hectic and maybe that will take some of the stress off of you and ashley. just maybe if your mom felt like she had someone to talk to. you feel like that sometimes, don't you?
they say that the older we get, we revert back to our childhood, and eventually our children become the parents and have to take care of "us". maybe emotionally now your mother needs you to take care of her. in the long run it will make things easier on all of you. especially since school is out and you will be spending more time at home during the summer.
please take care of yourself. and remember one split second decision you make could change your lives forever, especially when there is fighting and arguing. i grew up around that and i hate that type of situations now. think with your heart and don't let your mother play with your emotions. emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse. cuts and bruises heal, you can't take those words back after they've been spoken. that is why it is better to think before you speak. don't say anything in anger...it's not worth it.
they say that the older we get, we revert back to our childhood, and eventually our children become the parents and have to take care of "us". maybe emotionally now your mother needs you to take care of her. in the long run it will make things easier on all of you. especially since school is out and you will be spending more time at home during the summer.
please take care of yourself. and remember one split second decision you make could change your lives forever, especially when there is fighting and arguing. i grew up around that and i hate that type of situations now. think with your heart and don't let your mother play with your emotions. emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse. cuts and bruises heal, you can't take those words back after they've been spoken. that is why it is better to think before you speak. don't say anything in anger...it's not worth it.
love and stuff...and lots of it.....
the other mother...muah
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