Survey copied from Myspace
Ten Things You Want To Say To Ten Different People:
1. I'm glad that as time goes on we are learning to get along better and that our relationship is becoming more friendly and genuine. At least I think it is. And I'm proud of the progress you've made and where you're going. But I worry if you'll actually be able to do it or not. But I'm proud of you for at least trying and am completely in support of your choice.
2. I'm sorry about how mean I was to you when we were younger. I really was a brat. As time goes on I like you more, respect you more, look up to you more and love to see how you are growing and changing.
3. You are one of the best things that has happened in my life so far and I don't know where I would be without you. You've taught me more than you know about myself and how I see things and relationships of all kinds.
4. I believe that you love her. I don't believe that she loves you the way that she should for you to be making these decisions with her. I think you were either selfish and stupid or heavily persuaded by her or blinded by either love or lust. That said I hope that everything does work out with you all for the sake of everyone involved. I am also still trying to get over it and not let it influence our friendship and how it was progressing. That is how much it upset me.
5. I love you. I wish I understood you and how you worked better. And I wish that I could be more of a help to you but I don't always know what I should do, what would be too much, or what would be fair to both of us.
6. My blood boils every time you mention how I've grown up and matured and what a "nice young lady" I am. You took 2-3 years longer than everybody else to begin acknowledging positive changes in me and some of those changes you acknowledge aren't even me! I don't hold back for your sake, and certainly not for mine. I hold back only for my family. What you are finally complimenting, approving of, and accepting isn't the real me. The REAL me would stand up for herself and defend herself against your false assumptions about me and would react and have an opinion in other situations. But you never approved of me when I did that. In order to be accepted by you I have to bite my tongue regardless of how wrong you are and am not allowed to honestly portray who I am. You took years to begin seeing any real good in me at all. That's not me and that's not true acceptance and therefore I do not want your approval on it. My family's perhaps as I am doing it for them, but not yours, because you haven't, didn't, and wouldn't accept and approve of the real me.
7. I'm very proud of you and all of the things you're doing and also slightly jealous that I didn't make those choices.
8. Even though I've more or less tolerated you for the most part I'm beginning to like and appreciate you more for who you are now. You can actually be very funny sometimes and I love how happy you make her and that you love them so much. I'm also very proud and happy that you didn't give up on you and her, that you have provided for them all, and that you seem to have found your career niche and what you want to do. I sincerely hope that you can and will accomplish those goals.
9. Even though you two seem happy for the most part and I believe he does love you I think that you may be using him, are addicted to relationships, and are changing him for the worse and I don't like it or agree with it.
10. You either crack me up and are great to be with and talk to or you really tick me off. It depends on your mood.
Nine Things About Yourself:
1. My current favorite perfume is Valentino's Rock N' Rose. I love it. Even though I don't own any lol.
2. The reason that I wear a ponytail the majority of the time is because I can't stand the feeling of hair falling into my eyes and face.
3. The three music stations I listen to the most are a country station, one that plays rock/pop/r&b, and one that plays older, easy listening, nostalgia type music like from the 40's.
4. I like being a girl. I love makeup, cute clothes, and all that. It's fun.
5. I love quotes. They can describe in a few words my exact thought or feeling that I've been babbling about for pages.
6. I am very long winded. In other words, I talk or type way too much and am often repetitive.
7. I watch Glenn Beck on CNN Headline News every night that I am able to. I agree with 90% or more of what he says.
8. My favorite Disney movie is Beauty and the Beast because I think it most accurately portrays falling in love and what real love is. It's not a love at first sight and then marriage story. They take time to know each other, serve and help each other, learn to see the positive in each other and then fall in love. It's also more about what is on the inside rather than the outside.
9. I love long road trips. They're great for thinking, daydreaming, driving, listing to music, enjoying the scenery, etc.
Eight Ways To Win My Heart:
1. Be my best friend. Be easy to talk to and to have an honest and open conversation with about anything whether deep or lighthearted.
2. Pursue me.
3. Romance me with sincerity. Love letters, being a gentleman, poems, a surprise gift or date, flowers...as long as whatever you send me is honest and sincere and from your heart and an expression or showing of your honest feelings towards me and and not just because you want to impress me or because you're "supposed" to etc.
4. Make me laugh. And not because I feel obligated to.
5. Get along really great with my family while remembering that I'm the one you're with. Not them. Keep a boundary there.
6. Be easy to joke, tease, flirt and banter with.
7. Love me for me and who I am now while making me want to improve and better myself just from being with you.
8. Buy me tickets a live Glenn Beck show (haha j.k. Sort of).
Sing or play the piano really well. Guitar, drums, etc. are second best.
Seven Questions That Cross Your Mind A Lot:
1. What does He want me to do?
2. What does the future hold?
3. What would I really LOVE doing?
4. What do I seriously want for myself?
5. Will it ever really happen?
6. Will he actually go through with it and succeed?
7. Could I realistically do it?
Six Things You Wish You Never Did:
1. I wish that I never would have gotten behind in high school and focused on stupid and unimportant things rather than my classes and work.
2. I wish I never said things I know I shouldn't.
3. I wish I had never begun dating outside of those guidelines.
4. I wish I had never started that.
5. I wish I never would have gotten fat by putting in the effort and energy to change my diet and exercise habits then before all of this when it would have been easier and better.
6. I wish I never procrastinated.
Five Turn Ons:
1. Longish hair if it's done right. Joe Nichols- very right. Adrian Paul in the Highlander- very right. Big and frizzy hair- wrong. Mullets- so very very wrong.
2. Beautiful eyes. Especially if blue.
3. Bad or tough boy look with a nice boy attitude. Like Leland on Dog the Bounty Hunter.
4. Great smiles. Dimples are a bonus.
5. Smelling good.
Four Turn Offs:
1. Ignoring me or disregarding my thoughts or feelings on things.
2. Bad odors.
3. Obviously desperate for anyone and not taking no for an answer.
4. Too scrawny.
Three Words That Describe Your Life:
1. Loud.
2. Roller Coaster.
3. Blessed.
Two Things You Want To Do Before You Die:
1. Get married and have a home and family of my own and be a great wife, mother and homemaker.
2. Be able to look back on my life and what I have done with pride and know that I have accomplished all that I was supposed to in it to the best of my ability.
One Confession:
1. Self esteem is not my forte. I'm very self conscious about myself, what I look like, say, what others are thinking etc. Not all of the time but a good portion of the time.
1. I'm glad that as time goes on we are learning to get along better and that our relationship is becoming more friendly and genuine. At least I think it is. And I'm proud of the progress you've made and where you're going. But I worry if you'll actually be able to do it or not. But I'm proud of you for at least trying and am completely in support of your choice.
2. I'm sorry about how mean I was to you when we were younger. I really was a brat. As time goes on I like you more, respect you more, look up to you more and love to see how you are growing and changing.
3. You are one of the best things that has happened in my life so far and I don't know where I would be without you. You've taught me more than you know about myself and how I see things and relationships of all kinds.
4. I believe that you love her. I don't believe that she loves you the way that she should for you to be making these decisions with her. I think you were either selfish and stupid or heavily persuaded by her or blinded by either love or lust. That said I hope that everything does work out with you all for the sake of everyone involved. I am also still trying to get over it and not let it influence our friendship and how it was progressing. That is how much it upset me.
5. I love you. I wish I understood you and how you worked better. And I wish that I could be more of a help to you but I don't always know what I should do, what would be too much, or what would be fair to both of us.
6. My blood boils every time you mention how I've grown up and matured and what a "nice young lady" I am. You took 2-3 years longer than everybody else to begin acknowledging positive changes in me and some of those changes you acknowledge aren't even me! I don't hold back for your sake, and certainly not for mine. I hold back only for my family. What you are finally complimenting, approving of, and accepting isn't the real me. The REAL me would stand up for herself and defend herself against your false assumptions about me and would react and have an opinion in other situations. But you never approved of me when I did that. In order to be accepted by you I have to bite my tongue regardless of how wrong you are and am not allowed to honestly portray who I am. You took years to begin seeing any real good in me at all. That's not me and that's not true acceptance and therefore I do not want your approval on it. My family's perhaps as I am doing it for them, but not yours, because you haven't, didn't, and wouldn't accept and approve of the real me.
7. I'm very proud of you and all of the things you're doing and also slightly jealous that I didn't make those choices.
8. Even though I've more or less tolerated you for the most part I'm beginning to like and appreciate you more for who you are now. You can actually be very funny sometimes and I love how happy you make her and that you love them so much. I'm also very proud and happy that you didn't give up on you and her, that you have provided for them all, and that you seem to have found your career niche and what you want to do. I sincerely hope that you can and will accomplish those goals.
9. Even though you two seem happy for the most part and I believe he does love you I think that you may be using him, are addicted to relationships, and are changing him for the worse and I don't like it or agree with it.
10. You either crack me up and are great to be with and talk to or you really tick me off. It depends on your mood.
Nine Things About Yourself:
1. My current favorite perfume is Valentino's Rock N' Rose. I love it. Even though I don't own any lol.
2. The reason that I wear a ponytail the majority of the time is because I can't stand the feeling of hair falling into my eyes and face.
3. The three music stations I listen to the most are a country station, one that plays rock/pop/r&b, and one that plays older, easy listening, nostalgia type music like from the 40's.
4. I like being a girl. I love makeup, cute clothes, and all that. It's fun.
5. I love quotes. They can describe in a few words my exact thought or feeling that I've been babbling about for pages.
6. I am very long winded. In other words, I talk or type way too much and am often repetitive.
7. I watch Glenn Beck on CNN Headline News every night that I am able to. I agree with 90% or more of what he says.
8. My favorite Disney movie is Beauty and the Beast because I think it most accurately portrays falling in love and what real love is. It's not a love at first sight and then marriage story. They take time to know each other, serve and help each other, learn to see the positive in each other and then fall in love. It's also more about what is on the inside rather than the outside.
9. I love long road trips. They're great for thinking, daydreaming, driving, listing to music, enjoying the scenery, etc.
Eight Ways To Win My Heart:
1. Be my best friend. Be easy to talk to and to have an honest and open conversation with about anything whether deep or lighthearted.
2. Pursue me.
3. Romance me with sincerity. Love letters, being a gentleman, poems, a surprise gift or date, flowers...as long as whatever you send me is honest and sincere and from your heart and an expression or showing of your honest feelings towards me and and not just because you want to impress me or because you're "supposed" to etc.
4. Make me laugh. And not because I feel obligated to.
5. Get along really great with my family while remembering that I'm the one you're with. Not them. Keep a boundary there.
6. Be easy to joke, tease, flirt and banter with.
7. Love me for me and who I am now while making me want to improve and better myself just from being with you.
8. Buy me tickets a live Glenn Beck show (haha j.k. Sort of).
Sing or play the piano really well. Guitar, drums, etc. are second best.
Seven Questions That Cross Your Mind A Lot:
1. What does He want me to do?
2. What does the future hold?
3. What would I really LOVE doing?
4. What do I seriously want for myself?
5. Will it ever really happen?
6. Will he actually go through with it and succeed?
7. Could I realistically do it?
Six Things You Wish You Never Did:
1. I wish that I never would have gotten behind in high school and focused on stupid and unimportant things rather than my classes and work.
2. I wish I never said things I know I shouldn't.
3. I wish I had never begun dating outside of those guidelines.
4. I wish I had never started that.
5. I wish I never would have gotten fat by putting in the effort and energy to change my diet and exercise habits then before all of this when it would have been easier and better.
6. I wish I never procrastinated.
Five Turn Ons:
1. Longish hair if it's done right. Joe Nichols- very right. Adrian Paul in the Highlander- very right. Big and frizzy hair- wrong. Mullets- so very very wrong.
2. Beautiful eyes. Especially if blue.
3. Bad or tough boy look with a nice boy attitude. Like Leland on Dog the Bounty Hunter.
4. Great smiles. Dimples are a bonus.
5. Smelling good.
Four Turn Offs:
1. Ignoring me or disregarding my thoughts or feelings on things.
2. Bad odors.
3. Obviously desperate for anyone and not taking no for an answer.
4. Too scrawny.
Three Words That Describe Your Life:
1. Loud.
2. Roller Coaster.
3. Blessed.
Two Things You Want To Do Before You Die:
1. Get married and have a home and family of my own and be a great wife, mother and homemaker.
2. Be able to look back on my life and what I have done with pride and know that I have accomplished all that I was supposed to in it to the best of my ability.
One Confession:
1. Self esteem is not my forte. I'm very self conscious about myself, what I look like, say, what others are thinking etc. Not all of the time but a good portion of the time.