getting to know people
I really don't understand people sometimes. It really makes me angry how little time people spend getting to know others. For instance, knowing someone is not right for you after one date when the person is a nervous chatterbox and bored because they picked something quite dumb to do or a few instances of hanging out when the person isnt really themselves. I always thought it took longer than that. Maybe I'm naive and stupid and maybe it takes me longer or I just spend my time so I can see the big picture. I just really don't see how someone can feel like they can know and judge a person's true self from less than 10 hours of hanging out with them. The whole idea just perplexes me.