Feb 29, 2004 16:46
Ever since I fully came out back in 2000 I've had stud friends in my time, some I'm cool with, some were just associates, and some I was cool with but lost contact...the first stud friend I've ever had I lost contact...I need to find her ass and see how she's doing. But now here's a list of allllllllllllll of my stud folks, by first name(or screen name, if I forgot their name LOL), and it'll say whether I'm still cool with them or not, a lil' bio of each:
April, a.k.a. "Danni": First stud friend I became cool with, but lost contact in late 2001, but I can always find her, but ran into her at Club Faith in 2002, with a new GF!! Hope she's still with that cutie that she was with at the club. Oh yeah, in late 2000 I put out an ad on AOL and she was the first to respond to it before my AOL account got shut down by my aunt, she was just looking for friends, but I was lucky enough to get April's screen name(and e-mail addy) before the shut down happened...she also hip me to the gay term "Family" and helped me expand my queer horizon by taking me to clubs and parties, thank God she had a fake ID LOL .
Marsha: Now the reason I put her on this list is because she could pass for a stud because of how she carries herself, but she luvs dressin' like a femme, she's an aggressive femme I guess u can say, and I met her through April, we became more close with one another than April and I, but it all even out...we were all just one big click...lost contact with her, too, in 2002...but I can always find her, too...even though she lives in Tenn, but I know where her mom lives...she's in Fairfield ; ) .
Sterling: An associate for a very short time, she was kickin' it with Marsha and sometimes April...
Monica: She's not a stud, but she's a black, skater butch LOL...but she was a really good friend of mine, we went through our up's and downs and I had a big crush on her(yeah, yeah, just like I had a crush on April LOL), yeah...when she got together with this one chick name Cassie...I was soooo jealous, but it was cool...met Monica at the Solano Pride Center...correction, at the SPC's first anual youth conference two days after commin' to the center for the first time. Also, her, Cassie and I found out about the gay scene of Sacramento through a SPC member, and once we checked it out for ourselves the rest was history for me...met a lot of folks in Sacto, and still am till this very day. Too bad we lost contact in 2002, by choice that is, a situation happened and I wanted to keep my distance from her, let shit blow over, but I did stop by her house about a month or two ago, but she wasn't home...I'll try it again soon.
Deneece, a.k.a. "D' ": This might be another long-mini bio also, hehe...met my dawg online back in 2001 via Yahoo.com(remember, I lost my AOL, so I was using Prodigy as a back-up to sign online (thank u Grandma, R.I.P.) and Yahoo as my internet server) . She had her own group, about studs, and I wanted to join because I wanted to me other studs at the time, so I joined, but I wanted to meet the founder of the group. So, it just so happens that the founder was online, and I IMed her, giving her props about her group, and the rest was history...we also went through the storm, but all is forgiven & we're still cool till this very day...her and her ex/friend E' was the one that told me about paying AOL through your phonebill...that's what made me decide to get the AOL that I'm still using to this very day. I also used to spend the weekend with D' and E' after I met D' online...those were some good time...and almost 3 years later I was chillin' with them again...they've always been there for me when I was going through some drama in my home and with myself, and I don't know about E'(since she's probably still mad at me for what happen in Vegas...yeah, I was really bad), but D' will always have my back, and I will with her(and E', if she'll let me).
Tiffany, a.k.a. C.K.: Goodness, I know I did a venting poem about Tiff, but we're still cool, don't worry LOL. She was the most popular student at Fairfield High, and she was also a T.A. in my indoor net games class, but we wern't friends...yet. I always wish that I could be her friend, and many years later, in 2001(DAMN, a lot has happened in my life in 2001!!) I was spending the weekend with D' and E' when they were livin' in Rodeo, Cali, and...I think I already told this damn story...FUCK IT, I'll tell it again! But now, I was using D and E's computer and signed on AOL under E's screen name, I ended up going to the Black Lesbian chat room, and I said, "Sup everybody?!! I'm using my friend's screen name...22/female/Cali, Bay Area 707..." something like that LOL, and Tiff IMs me askin' me all these questions, like, "Did u go to Fairfield High? Where are u from? What year did u graduate???"...all these damn questions, and I asked her rudely, "Who are u to ask me all those damn questions, do I know u?!!"...something like that...and then she told me who she was and that she likes women, and I freaked out LOL. At the time, she was looking for some cool folks to kick it with since she be commin' home from the VA(being in the Marines and all), she wanted to check out the clubs and everything...you know I jumped to that opportunity, and yes...the rest was history ; ) . Tiff and I are still cool till this very day, we still go to the clubs & have a good ass time...whenever she comes home to visit, and thank God she's in San Diego, so she's not far from home at all...and not only that...she has been a really good friend to me as well, has a good azz heart & is always there for me whenever I need her, and vise versa. Tiff and I will ALWAYS have each other's back, for life.
More to go...to be continued...told u I had more stud folks LOL.
Much Luv