I don't know why I neglect this thing....
I really dont know why. I guess just sometimes I need to vent, so I post here. Well, there's a lot on my mind...but I don't know where to start. So lets try to get a bit organized. Moving from Upper Darby to Geneva has had its advantages. One thing I've been able to see is how different people are, and how much we're all the same. Some things change - right down to what SODA is called. The midwest calls it Pop...i mean WTF is that??? oh well...
On a more serious note - one thing that I've come to realize is: nice guys ALWAYS finish last like they say. It’s amazing that all the asshole guys of the world can and always do get the girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S ALL CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen until they get into what they’re after. The girl thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes the guy really is, they pretend like the he is really nice inside. The girl tries to change him into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about her bf. But she claims to love him now this is where it all begins.
She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump him right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots sometimes. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. The girl he listens to all along is the one he's always had a crush on. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, "Oh he’s hot" or "I want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the boyfriend. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets everything else.
I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get a girl. I've been down this path for my entire life and it has gotten me nowhere at all, at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because they ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn’t he paying attention to me?" so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to him. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, "I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass". It's then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him; even thought all she has won is an asshole.
Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a listener, you cant do anything about it - just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get a girl like this - ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies, instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you.
Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys; they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft.
To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself; because he has listened to it all.
I guess thats all I have to say for now, except for some reason i'm gonna keep on being the nice guy...cause thats all I can be...
On a more serious note - one thing that I've come to realize is: nice guys ALWAYS finish last like they say. It’s amazing that all the asshole guys of the world can and always do get the girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S ALL CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen until they get into what they’re after. The girl thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes the guy really is, they pretend like the he is really nice inside. The girl tries to change him into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about her bf. But she claims to love him now this is where it all begins.
She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump him right away, instead she will stay with the asshole. Girls are idiots sometimes. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. The girl he listens to all along is the one he's always had a crush on. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, "Oh he’s hot" or "I want to have his children" about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the boyfriend. The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets everything else.
I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get a girl. I've been down this path for my entire life and it has gotten me nowhere at all, at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because they ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, "Why isn’t he paying attention to me?" so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to him. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The asshole finally says, "I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass". It's then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him; even thought all she has won is an asshole.
Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a "listener" you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a listener, you cant do anything about it - just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get a girl like this - ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont "come to her senses" and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies, instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you.
Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys; they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is no such thing as the perfect asshole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft.
To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your asshole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself; because he has listened to it all.
I guess thats all I have to say for now, except for some reason i'm gonna keep on being the nice guy...cause thats all I can be...