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[tivadu]

Dear Furry Fandom,

Can we please change the channel? I tired of the same old re-runs. These soap operas have really gotten old. “All My Furries” does not need more character defamation, and retaliation. What it needs is…. ALIENS! or something… This story line has become WAY to predictable and hard to stay with.

In all seriousness guys, the mass

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[raspberryroo]

Honestly Trig, I'm not trying to start something. I feel defensive in this subject and while you haven't been mean to me personally, I've witnessed times were you were unfriendly with people I really care about. You can't fault me for that.

However, that isn't what this is about. I will agree that I was sucked into a situation that I wish could have never taken place. I feel like I'm trapped in a room screaming and no one wants to hear what I have to say. The whole reason I even made that post was because at AC more than once I was approached about lies being spread about me among those I considered to be very close friends. It was painful and embarrassing mostly because I was made out to be this bad guy. I had my reasons for not associating with Arito and I kept them to myself but I guess my silence was an admittance to guilt for others and the whole idea of it ate at my very being.

I finally needed some sort of outlet, so yes - I did take my frustrations public. I say public, but it really was a locked post. Of course by expressing myself in this manner I am now the childish one because I came clean about my feelings vs talking behind his back to everyone that would listen.

You know - I try to do the right things, but I'm only human.

[raspberryroo]

Also should be noted that I did TRY to talk with Artio, even a year ago I tried to be sure everything ended on a good note when we asked him to leave. I can talk and talk, but I can't help it if the other party chooses not to hear me.

[arito]

Hey, this post goes to both of you (Sophie/Raspberry).

I really think this whole situation has very quickly grown out of control. People who were never even involved are being sucked in and hurt.

While all three of us (Sophie/Raspberry/Myself) have done wrong, I can only speak for what I have done myself. I apologize for not being a better roommate and for my failings in communication. I apologize for making a retaliatory post and for not apologizing sooner. Most of all, I apologize for allowing things to go this far without resolution.

Let's put an end to this silly thing for once and for all.

If either of you would be willing to talk over dinner or online, I would be willing to listen.

[arito]

I've removed my prior post regarding the situation.

[raspberryroo]

Out of mutual respect I have done the same. Hard to believe, but I'm not a horrible person.

[raspberryroo]

Did you remove it or am I just not allowed to view it anymore?

"Error

You are not authorized to view this protected entry."

[arito]

I set it as private (only viewable by me), simply because I saw "mark private" before I saw the delete option (it was late). I will remove it though. Yours gives the same "you are not able to view" message.

[raspberryroo]

I fixed mine too - both are totally gone.

Thank you :)

[raspberryroo]

You know, I honestly held no ill intentions towards you. Things didn't work out, we each had our reasons for believing what we did, and I was ok with calling it a day.

It wasn't until AC that I had learned from a few different sources about some pretty strange lies floating around about the situation. Well it maybe would have been better to let sleeping dogs lie, I felt that this one sided opinion floating around needed my two cents.

The truth is, regardless of what actually happened, we will both only see things the way we wish to see them - wrong or right. The true events will always remain somewhat of a mystery to an outsider as stories will always be biased and a bit bitter.

Thank you for the apology, and it is accepted.

I'm sorry for bringing some personal things some what public, the initial post was a form of retaliation to the rumors I had heard at AC. Whats done is done and while we can't change the past, I'm sorry things didn't turn out better. There was a lot of missed communications, and I'm sorry for my play in that as well. We have different views, and that's ok. When you lived here I did express my frustrations to friends on the outside and I'm sorry for that but honestly since you moved out you haven't been a topic.

I wish to put this all behind me to. Trust me, I don't want all this drama.

[arito]

I definately accept your apology. I have held no ill will towards you either. I am somewhat curious about these AC rumors though, I may IM you regarding them if you don't mind. I have a feeling that someone may have been trying to start more drama; I honestly never said anything at AC, I was suiting nearly the whole time. Something seems suspicious.

In any case, I have felt bad about this situation for some time and I don't think any of us need the extra stress in our lives. I'm glad we could come to a mutual understanding here.

In the grand scheme of things, what happened in the apartment (on either side) wasn't the end of the world, nobody was hurt physically or hauled off to jail. We definately wouldn't have made it on Cops. ;)

I do again apologize for any broken or lacking communications on my end. I guess it's something people can always improve on.

[sophiecabra]

I removed my post as well. It was a defensive move, since I felt very slandered (which I'm sure you felt as well). I can fully and honestly tell you (I will do so face-to-face as well) that I have never, never stolen from you or lied about time worked. That's not me. I've always been one to be the good citizen, return wallets of money, etc. So, I was pretty furious and made a post as a jerk reaction.

But it's removed. My offer from my email stands. We need to get together and chat. Online nonsense always turns people into vicious little suckers.

[arito]

Thanks for removing the post, that is a very nice gesture. I totally agree that online makes things worse. I'm interested in sitting down and chatting. Let's all get together Saturday or next week.

[sophiecabra]

I think waiting a week or two will calm some nerves. :)

[arito]

Sounds good. :)

[raspberryroo]

Will you be at Megaplex?

[arito]

Most likely; at least Fri/Sat!