Drinks drinks drinks
Last night was one of the few nights that I've been able to sleep soundly... unfortunately, it was the help of a couple of beers that got me out cold. Tsk. I doubt this is a healthy sign.
So...I headed out for drinks with J last night, just to catch up and stuff. (Yes, Sin, this is the same J whom you think is a complete player/arse) It's been a long while since I've seen her la. I was just keen for dinner or coffee but she suggested drinks, so why not. Who am I to turn down DRINKS? It'll be like, once in a blue moon when I actually do turn down drinks.
I was a tad annoyed when she later said that her best mate (who's as old as her... i.e. 30s!) would be joining us... and then a while later, her best mate's gf too. I know there's nothing wrong with meeting new people but I was just in a particularly anti-social mood. Plus, it was a tad awkward at first 'cos it seemed like some weird double date. Her friends turned out to be really quite hilarious and awesome, so I guess it was just unfounded fears.
Anyway, I've come up with THREE ways to indicate how you know you're over someone:
1) You don't really give a fuck on what you wear. (I mean you know how jittery I get over dates- calling up all the gay boys and the girls on what to wear, what shoes, what bag and whether my hair should be up or down.)
2) You don't really give a fuck what his/her friends think of you. (Previously, introduction to friends, especially good friends always made me feel a tad anxious. What if they hate me bla bla bla or vice versa. C/f last week's episode of HIMYM when Ted says something along the lines of, "I don't care what my friends think of my girlfriend, but what my girlfriend thinks of my friends")
3) You don't give a fuck how long/short the time you spend together.
Feel free to disagree.
Anyway, J was asking about so-and-so and then went, "You saw M for a while, and you DIDN'T fuck M? Cannot be!". To which I replied, "Easy. (1) I never went to M's house when M asked me to. (2) I always never make the first move for these kind of things. I just stand there and look pretty and if things happen, things happen loh."
Despite being an Aries (who are natural born leaders.. think Hitler, who incidentally shares the same birthday as me), I guess I'm your typical "passive" female. *shrugs* I suppose this is why some people think I'm just not that into them.
Well, that's that. I'm glad that J and I are still on good talking terms la and that things aren't uncomfortable,awkward or retarded. :D