When the wave breaks
Well, I am officially without a boy-toy. That's terribly inconvenient.
My 41 year old friend realized that he wasn't over his ex. I was so surprised.
He said that he didn't want to have a strictly physical relationship because he liked me too much for that, but that he didn't feel he could give me the time and attention that he felt I deserved. It's sweet, but I'd be totally ok with that. Point is that he's not, so that's that.
He asked me if he could keep my number and contact me at a later stage when he might feel more ready. I said sure, because what are the odds of that, really? He said he just hoped he wouldn't be too late, and I pointed out that I couldn't promise that. He laughed and said of course not.
He's a sweet guy, but like I've said since the beginning, we're not right for each other. I hope he manages to work through his grief about his lost relationship, or that he manages to get back together with her.
It just leaves me with one important question:
Who the hell am I gonna sleep with now?
My 41 year old friend realized that he wasn't over his ex. I was so surprised.
He said that he didn't want to have a strictly physical relationship because he liked me too much for that, but that he didn't feel he could give me the time and attention that he felt I deserved. It's sweet, but I'd be totally ok with that. Point is that he's not, so that's that.
He asked me if he could keep my number and contact me at a later stage when he might feel more ready. I said sure, because what are the odds of that, really? He said he just hoped he wouldn't be too late, and I pointed out that I couldn't promise that. He laughed and said of course not.
He's a sweet guy, but like I've said since the beginning, we're not right for each other. I hope he manages to work through his grief about his lost relationship, or that he manages to get back together with her.
It just leaves me with one important question:
Who the hell am I gonna sleep with now?