This week has been so shitty, that i want to get a gun and shoot people. I had the worse anxiety attack and to make it even better I was all be myself at the house
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u know what i hate? i hate when everyone bitches about things like that i worked two jobs all thru highschool, worked two jobs my first year of college got all my own financial aid and such cause my mom cant afford it thought she would give me anything if she could i ended up developing a pretty serious medical problem and got in two "accidents" that compacted the problems for that reason i returned to austin and had to seriously cut down on activities and since this is the time for school, and i prepared myself to not HAVE to work if i stayed with my mom i stopped working and focused completely on school now i do all my school work, pay for school, help my mom with soem things AND help my boyfriend with his own company for no personal gain for me thing is it is NONE of anyone elses business and it really really irritates me that people seem to think other peoples financial situations have ANYTHING to do with them if you are so unhappy with your own life that u have to find someone to be pissed off at u have other problems i am sure that most people would love to be able to give their kids everything and for their kids not to have to work while going to school and some people have worked hard enough so that their children can focus entirely on school how dare u stick ur nose in their business as much as u prolly think one of those kids wouldnt want ur life full of work and school i am certain u wouldnt really wanna walk in their shoes try waking up feeling like u have just been in a wreck every day for two fucking years mind ur own business dont bitch about other peoples things dont be so materialistic and worry only about what U r doing
and kathy jeez what r u thinking, u know u have it pretty good and what u live thru only makes u stronger
it really is somewhat ironic that yall r stating how busy u are and stuff but apparently u non busy enough to not get mad at stupid things that u shouldnt even be thinking about
Kc honey people whose parent ssupport them and go to school or do something productive is great, i actually encourage it if it is possible. school alone is a job, you situation is very very different then what we are talking about. You are being productive and actually do things in your life, we aren't talking about those who go to school or doing something. we are talking about those who are lazy spend there day fucking around and then complain how their parents didn't give them enough money for this cd or sweater they wanted. We are talking about those who don't want to do anything. who just sit and don't have ambition. these is what is making us mad, since they have this great thing by having their parents help to do something and they don't they waste it. i wish parents could help their kids during school or etc, but a majority can't. But i encourage it, if youu don't have to work while in school or starting a business or whatever your dream might be that is great and take it and run with it. But if you aren't doing anything and just wasting time by partying all the time or just spending your parents money on crap then i hope these people realize how good they have and do something productive with their lives while they still have this good opportunity.
They're MY friends. It's not like I'm going up to random people on the street and saying, "stop living off your parents money! Get a job!" No. My friends are all around 20 years old, and almost all who still live in the city as opposed to going away to college have been living off their parents (with one or two exceptions, who've become independents like I have).
"u non busy enough to not get mad at stupid things that u shouldnt even be thinking about"
Believe it or not, it's difficult to pick and choose what I become angry about. Anger is an emotion. I am not a robot, and do not seek to become one. While I concede that it's a silly thing to get angry about, it's gets on my nerves nontheless.
I guess what really gets my goat is when they complain about not having enough money to buy that fifth pair of pants, and I recommend that they get a job, and they brush the idea off like it wouldn't make any difference. Part of the frustration comes from the concern that my friends, who're smart, able bodied people, are going to end up twenty somethings who've never had a job, never had to worry about making the rent, never even done their own laundry, and they're going to leave home not knowing what the hell to do. I had more responsibility when I was sixteen than most of them do now, so when I left home, I could more than handle myself. They don't have that luxury. They should be easing themselves into independence. All they're doing right now is ensuring that it's going to be more difficult when it's thrust upon them.
It's great that their parents want to take care of them forever and shelter them, but you gotta grow up sooner or later.
"...and what u live thru only makes u stronger".
How strong are they going to be? It's their own fault, but they're my friends. I want to see them strong. I want to see them do well. And the world's going to kick their ass if they don't get their respective asses together.
i hate when everyone bitches about things like that
i worked two jobs all thru highschool, worked two jobs my first year of college
got all my own financial aid and such cause my mom cant afford it
thought she would give me anything if she could
i ended up developing a pretty serious medical problem and got in two "accidents" that compacted the problems
for that reason i returned to austin and had to seriously cut down on activities
and since this is the time for school, and i prepared myself to not HAVE to work if i stayed with my mom
i stopped working and focused completely on school
now i do all my school work, pay for school, help my mom with soem things AND help my boyfriend with his own company for no personal gain for me
thing is
it is NONE of anyone elses business
and it really really irritates me that people seem to think other peoples financial situations have ANYTHING to do with them
if you are so unhappy with your own life that u have to find someone to be pissed off at u have other problems
i am sure that most people would love to be able to give their kids everything
and for their kids not to have to work while going to school
and some people have worked hard enough so that their children can focus entirely on school
how dare u stick ur nose in their business
as much as u prolly think one of those kids wouldnt want ur life full of work and school
i am certain u wouldnt really wanna walk in their shoes
try waking up feeling like u have just been in a wreck every day for two fucking years
mind ur own business
dont bitch about other peoples things
dont be so materialistic
and worry only about what U r doing
and kathy jeez
what r u thinking, u know u have it pretty good and what u live thru only makes u stronger
it really is somewhat ironic that yall r stating how busy u are and stuff
but apparently u non busy enough to not get mad at stupid things that u shouldnt even be thinking about
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They're MY friends. It's not like I'm going up to random people on the street and saying, "stop living off your parents money! Get a job!" No. My friends are all around 20 years old, and almost all who still live in the city as opposed to going away to college have been living off their parents (with one or two exceptions, who've become independents like I have).
"u non busy enough to not get mad at stupid things that u shouldnt even be thinking about"
Believe it or not, it's difficult to pick and choose what I become angry about. Anger is an emotion. I am not a robot, and do not seek to become one. While I concede that it's a silly thing to get angry about, it's gets on my nerves nontheless.
I guess what really gets my goat is when they complain about not having enough money to buy that fifth pair of pants, and I recommend that they get a job, and they brush the idea off like it wouldn't make any difference.
Part of the frustration comes from the concern that my friends, who're smart, able bodied people, are going to end up twenty somethings who've never had a job, never had to worry about making the rent, never even done their own laundry, and they're going to leave home not knowing what the hell to do. I had more responsibility when I was sixteen than most of them do now, so when I left home, I could more than handle myself. They don't have that luxury. They should be easing themselves into independence. All they're doing right now is ensuring that it's going to be more difficult when it's thrust upon them.
It's great that their parents want to take care of them forever and shelter them, but you gotta grow up sooner or later.
"...and what u live thru only makes u stronger".
How strong are they going to be? It's their own fault, but they're my friends. I want to see them strong. I want to see them do well. And the world's going to kick their ass if they don't get their respective asses together.
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